Women have the nerve to call men lazy for not approaching them, but what they refuse to face is the truth, men are not lazy, they are observant. Men assessed the climate and saw the hostility. They saw the disdain. They saw how much modern women resent men at their core. So they made the smartest move possible, they stopped playing the rigged game.
 
Men are not sitting around out of apathy. For years, they approached women with good intentions, with courage, with sincerity. And what did they get? Insulted, mocked, publicly humiliated. Branded as creeps for simply saying hello. Disrespected for not being tall enough, rich enough, confident enough, or just plain lucky enough to meet impossible standards built on delusion.
 
Then came the realization. Men finally saw the pattern. Women did not care about men as human beings. They did not care about character, effort, or values. What they wanted, what they still want, is a man’s money, his status, his resources. The mission was never love or partnership. It was exploitation. The relationship was never mutual. It was transactional, and one-sided.
 
So men stopped. After twenty years of being told “leave us alone,” they finally listened. Women screamed about independence. They paraded around chanting they do not need men, they do not want men, they are strong without them. Men got the message. They exited the dating marketplace. They went silent. They stepped away. And now? Now those same women are seething, calling men lazy for doing exactly what women demanded, staying away. They want men to return just to humiliate them again. Just to have another punching bag for their insecurities.
 
Women have devolved into something unrecognizable. The entitlement, the disrespect, the narcissism, it has reached such extremes that even lesbians are tapping out. That is not an exaggeration. Lesbians are going back to men, not because they love men, but because they are disgusted by the way women treat each other. Let that sink in. When even women cannot stand women, it is time to stop pretending this is just a few bad apples.
 
And while men are no strangers to denial, they have at least been forced to confront their faults. But women? The mirror is their enemy. Accountability is a foreign language. Growth is impossible when you believe you are always right. A woman cannot change what she refuses to acknowledge. And most would rather drown in delusion than admit they were ever wrong.
 
As I have always said, “We ALL learn and grow from our  mistakes, but a woman is never wrong.” We all make mistakes in life, those who face them evolve. And women, most of them would rather point fingers, shift blame, and play the victim forever than take one honest look inward. And that is why so many of them never grow.

I just left a conversation where the man was telling me how much his step-daughter looks like him.
 
I’m not sure how to take this.

When I was 16 years old, I had a heated argument with my mother. In an attempt to get away from her escalating rage, I brushed past her. That was all it took. She picked up the phone and called the cops, telling them I beat her. She lied, without hesitation. By the next day, thanks to my sister, every kid in the neighborhood believed I was a violent thug who assaulted his own mother.
 
Fast forward to the day my mother and my sister got into one of their infamous battles. They destroyed the living room. The television was smashed. Dishes shattered across the floor. They clawed and punched each other like enemies in a street brawl until they were both on the floor, yanking each other’s hair and bleeding from the face.
 
I walked into that war zone, stunned. My sister ran out the door like a coward. My mother, the same woman who lied to the police and destroyed my name, sat there in tears and said she felt sorry for my sister. Her excuse? “She’s confused.”
 
The same sister who beat her bloody got a sympathy pass. No cops were called. No rumors were spread. Not a single word was said to the neighborhood.
 
Because when a boy makes one wrong move, he’s branded for life. But when a girl causes chaos, she gets coddled, protected, and forgiven like it never happened.

(Written to me from CrownEyes)
 
We live in a time of social decay, degeneracy, greed, lack of love and cognitive dissonance. The games many people play to achieve their agendas can be relentless. The games played in relationships are almost never ending unlike the fairytales girls used to watch when they were young.
 
Men today are a shadow of their former selves while women’s shadows have grown into a greedy hungry monster waiting to devour its next victim. Regretfully, the modern woman is like a parasite waiting for a host to suck off everything they can until it dies or finds a better host in order to “upgrade” her financial and social status.
 
In the stage of the game, we’re all actors and characters. What happens when the environment of the stage has everything in place for women to “win” and men to “lose”? It’s almost like watching the mightiest of heroes lose at the end of the movie. As it is said, we are all a product of our environment. Because of the way the stage is set, women can play games to their advantage without consequence, unlike any other time in history.
 
With her many interactions, women play games with men in almost every move they make. It’s a constant battle of words, psychology and energy of who can dominate. She constantly plays power games with the man, looking for points of weakness and ways she can establish power over the man. She is looking to see what she can take from him with little to nothing in return. She is a parasite. When she is successful, in reality or in her own imagination, she becomes disinterested and leaves, but not before she finds another host. The more she plays, the better she gets, and the faster she gets detached.
 
A moral woman wouldn’t belittle, take advantage, rip off, cheat, beat down; disrespect anyone much less the man she supposedly is in love with. But because the system favors women, many women take advantage of all the details and little things most don’t pick up. This proves that most women are narcissistic, selfish and conceited human beings. They are without any concern with creating a family or a future. They are devoid of any future planning. They are without morals.
 
Greed, coupled with her ability to become detached from her feelings is all she needs, especially when a woman sees a man as her golden ticket. When her target man has money or even more than her previous host, her prize is marriage or engagement.
 
To be fair they have been brainwashed to be weaponized against men. As a result, men have been stripped of any power they have ever had. When employers give women jobs, they don’t realize they are making it worse for all other men by doing that. First you give a job to women, means a job a man didn’t get including the money and career it comes with. Second, you raise a woman’s status to the point where she doubles or even triples the standard of the status of the man she seeks as a mate. The higher a woman’s salary, the higher she perceives her own status, the higher her expectations of her potential mate’s status and salary. This cycle continues to the point she has unreasonable expectations as most women expect a man to always have a higher social status than her. She will always seek out a mate that is better off financially than her.
 
Women think they’re more beautiful than they actually are, the makeup and plastic surgery has infected their self-perception and inflated their egos way beyond repair. Even her parents helped along the way, most likely her father, telling her that she’s a princess and she’s beautiful which is nice but they’re lying to her. She is no princess.
 
The Marxist culture, using Hollywood, Disney and the music industry has blown women’s egos and self-perception out of proportion. Women today have massive egos, they are on power trips. Social media is the steroids that push this false delusional ego into the beyond the stratosphere. It’s parents’ fault for not raising feminine moral girls who hold a family together and be faithful wives. They raise career women as if they were men.
 
Now when men look for a wife, they’re finding a man inside a woman’s body not a feminine woman like they used to make them and I don’t mean that in the transgender sense but in how women behave in the modern age. They compete against their boyfriends and husbands and not assist and help them. They don’t want to serve but to be served. If you want a woman to behave as a woman you need to get off your knees and become a King right from the start. If she won’t have you as her King, then the King needs to kick her out of his Kingdom and win in the game of life.

“A woman can run faster and longer with her dress up than a man ever could with his pants down.”
 
Do not get caught with your pants down. The moment you are distracted, vulnerable, or thinking with anything other than your mind, you give her the advantage. That is when she strikes, when you are least ready to defend yourself.
 
Keep your focus. Keep your guard. Never let lust or flattery blind you to the reality of the situation. Because when she runs, she will run with everything she can take from you, and you will be left standing there, wondering how you let it happen.

A promotional segment, disguised as journalism, aired on a local morning news program. It opened with a fluff survey from a dating site claiming, “73% of single women say that chivalry is dead.”
 
Then the performance began. The host brought in two women to “debate” the issue.
 
On one side was Suzanne Venker, author of The Alpha Female’s Guide to Men and Marriage, a book that still holds on to the last threads of sanity. On the other was Dr. Wendy Osefo, a Nigerian born professor from Johns Hopkins, a Democratic strategist, and a single mother. Likely single because the man she chose either refused to tolerate her demands or was tossed aside for not measuring up to her delusional checklist.
 
The panel was given three scenarios to evaluate.
 
1. A man picked up a woman for a date. She stood there demanding he open the door for her. He told her it was unlocked. She refused to get in, so he drove off.
 
2. A 1954 telegram from a groom to his bride:
“Darling, I shall be waiting for you at eight with a lifetime of expectancy. My heart will be coming with you down the aisle. May GOD be with us tonight as we pray we will always be with Him. Thank you for becoming my wife. My love forever yours, Henry.”
 
3. A post on social media declaring:
“Chivalry is harmful for both men and women because it forces this idea that women need to be helped or saved by a stronger man and it takes away from a woman’s agency.”
 
Suzanne Venker gave a rational take. She pointed out that after four decades of feminists screaming that women don’t need men, men finally got the message. They listened. They backed off. And now women are whining because the same chivalry they destroyed is gone.
 
Enter Dr. Wendy Osefo, or as she prefers to be addressed, Her Royal Highness, PhD. With every academic title she could pile on from student loan funded degrees, she still couldn’t grasp basic humility. She smugly proclaimed that women have “evolved” and now men must “rise to the occasion to meet where we are.”
 
Translation: Rise to my ever inflating level of entitlement, a level based on nothing but a delusional self image and an overvaluation of my own worth.
 
Let’s talk about that telegram. That man wrote with sincerity, love, and lifelong devotion. He loved his wife because she earned it. She didn’t demand it. She didn’t shop around for a man with a bigger wallet or a newer car. She stayed. She gave. She built something real. Love was not demanded like a product off a shelf. It was developed, nurtured, earned.
 
Today’s modern woman is the opposite. She demands instant love, instant status, instant comfort, and instant commitment. If you don’t wine her, dine her, entertain her, and pay her way, she’s gone, onto the next man with a higher credit score. She will demand marriage, then threaten divorce the second the spending slows down. And when she leaves, she’ll take half of everything.
 
She saves her money for herself, or worse, for the loser she actually lusts after while using the decent man to bankroll her lifestyle. She exploits men’s instincts to provide, not because she values it, but because she thinks it’s owed to her by default.
 
I wonder if she’ll teach her sons the same twisted logic. Should they “rise” to the levels of their girlfriends? Should they be the providers, protectors, and emotional dumping grounds while being treated as disposable? Good luck with that.
 
And let’s not pretend chivalry is some grand sexist scheme. Holding a door is not gendered, it’s called basic decency. Men hold doors for other men too. It’s a sign of respect, a gesture of dignity. But don’t expect that from the modern woman. Many of them walk through doors like royalty, without so much as glancing behind them. They don’t see people, they see servants.
 
So yes, chivalry is dead, and it’s women who killed it.

I made a general statement about women to a woman I know and, like clockwork, she protected the female collective by saying, “That’s a generalization. Not all women are like that.”
 
I responded with, “You’re right. You got me. But, at least men like watching their favorite sports team.”
 
She agreed by saying, “Yeah, that’s true.”
 
I immediately jumped in with, “But not all men. Not all. Not all men watch sports.”
 
She corrected herself and said, “Yeah, you’re right.”
 
I continued with, “Men are good at fixing things, right?”
 
She agreed by saying, “Yeah.”
 
Again I snapped with, “But not all men. Not all. Not all.”
 
Now she started looking at me like I was crazy. She said, “OK.”
 
Then I asked her, “Do bees sting?”
 
Cautiously she said, “Yes.”
 
I came back with, “But not all bees. Not all of them. Not all bees sting.”
 
Her final statement made it clear to me I was talking to a woman. She said, “I don’t get the point you’re trying to make.”
 
I just laughed.

Her: Not all girls are the same!
 
TheXYGhost: Good. I’ll wait until some girl takes me out, buys me dinner, and sweeps me off my feet until she is ready to propose to me with a new car.
 
Her: That’s never gonna happen.
 
TheXYGhost: Why? Because there are no girls who will ever take the time, energy, and money to pamper a man?
 
Her: You got that right!
 
TheXYGhost: So, what you are telling me is that all girls are the same.

“What Have You Done for Me Lately”, Janet Jackson (1986)
 
“What Have You Done for Me Ever”, TheXYGhost (2025)

The female collective will constantly repeat this phrase whenever a man speaks about the terrible experience he had with a woman. Let’s explore this.
 
Women want a man in her life who is:
 
• Taller than her
• Stronger than her
• Smarter than her
• Faster than her
• Richer than her
• More degrees than her
• More experienced than her
 
And whenever you speak negatively about women in general, they all speak out in unison.
 
• “Not ALL women are like that!”
• “You hate women.”
• “Who hurt you?”
• “You just pick the wrong women.”
• “Where do you find these women?”
 
When you marry the above woman and have kids with her, she will divorce you and make your children fatherless because she imagines that she has surpassed your status. If she wins a lottery, her winnings will determine that your kids do not need you any longer.

Women want to be wanted. But want without resistance is meaningless to them. That’s why women play hard to get. It’s not a strategy for finding a better man. It’s a tactic for making a man desire them more.
 
In their minds, forbidden fruit is sweeter. If something is too easy to have, it loses value. So women create their own barriers. They withhold, delay, and complicate. Not because they want to be left alone, but because they want to be chased.
 
By making themselves forbidden, they control the narrative. They force a man to prove his worth. They make him invest emotionally, mentally, and materially. The harder she is to get, the more valuable she seems. It’s an illusion of scarcity, designed to inflate her importance.
 
But here’s the truth, the game is not about finding love. The game is about feeding her ego. She wants to be wanted so badly, she will manufacture reasons to be untouchable, just to feel the weight of a man’s pursuit.
 
The paradox is simple. A woman wants to be wanted, but not given to. She wants to be chased, but never caught. Because the moment she is caught, the illusion of being forbidden vanishes, and with it, the thrill of being desired.

If you stand in front of a group of women and proclaim how amazing they all are, not one will interrupt. Say that all women are beautiful, strong, and intelligent, and they will sit there nodding like synchronized dolls. Say that all men are trash, cheaters, abusers, or cowards, and not a single woman will speak out in defense of the opposite sex. They will let that lie slide because it flatters them and feeds the ego.
 
But the second you expose an ugly truth, that over 80 percent of divorces are initiated by women, that women are walking out of families they built simply because they are unhappy or found some minor flaw in their man, the air changes. Suddenly the silence is broken by an outraged chorus of defense.
 
“Not ALL women are like that!”
“You must hate women.”
“Who hurt you?”
“You just pick the wrong ones.”
“Where are you meeting these women?”
 
That instant backlash is not about truth, it’s about loyalty to the hive. Women will defend the collective with religious devotion. Logic dies. Accountability disappears. They don’t care if it is factually accurate or morally wrong, they will attack you before they ever confront each other. Because to criticize one woman is to challenge the entire female narrative, and they will protect that narrative like their lives depend on it.

The View is not a talk show. It is a televised circus where a panel of cackling women compete for who can be the loudest, the most offended, and the most self-righteous in the room. It is marketed as a platform for “diverse female voices” but in reality, it is a chaotic display of emotional outbursts masquerading as intellectual discourse. There is no conversation. There is no debate. It is a verbal free-for-all where logic dies the moment feelings get hurt.
 
From a man’s perspective, The View is a masterclass in how not to have a productive conversation. The hosts don’t listen to understand. They listen to interrupt. They don’t argue to solve problems. They argue to be seen. Every topic, no matter how serious, is reduced to a catfight for attention. The constant virtue-signaling and moral grandstanding would be comical if it wasn’t so embarrassingly shallow.
 
It’s a perfect snapshot of what happens when emotional reasoning replaces critical thinking. Every episode is drenched in hypocrisy. They preach female empowerment while playing the victim. They demand equality but refuse accountability. They celebrate free speech as long as you parrot their opinions. Dissent is met with eye-rolls, mockery, and high-pitched shrieking until the opposing view is drowned out.
 
For any man who values logic, facts, and respectful debate, The View is pure torture. It’s not about solutions. It’s not about truth. It’s about spotlight addiction. It’s a daily reminder of how modern media panders to emotional immaturity and rewards outrage over substance.

Women partner with those who elevate their status, either by association or by contrast.
 
Elevating by association:
 
Women instinctively reject men they perceive as beneath them in any area they consider a strength.
 
• If she is strong, she rejects weak men.
 
• If she is rich, she rejects men who earn less.
 
• If she has a degree, she rejects men without one.
 
• If she has two degrees, she rejects men with only one.
 
• If she is tall, she rejects shorter men.
 
• If she is a bodybuilder, she rejects men who are not on her level physically.
 
• If she has a 140 IQ, she rejects anyone intellectually beneath her.She despises men she views as lesser. Once she sees she can overtake a man, she loses all respect and removes him from her life.
 
Whatever she values in herself, she expects more of in a man, or she walks.And yet, if a poor woman marries a billionaire, she becomes a billionaire by association.
 
Perception is everything. If she thinks she is smarter but finds out he is smarter, she will leave.
 
Elevating by contrast:
 
Now flip the script. A woman deliberately chooses a man beneath her in every category, then uses her strengths as a weapon. She reminds him at every turn that she is better, smarter, stronger, and more successful.
 
This is why women chase gangsters, thugs, criminals, substance abusers, ex- convicts, gamblers, smooth talkers, liars, cheaters, woman beaters, married men, con artists, lazy fools, and abusive jerks. She feels powerful around them. She gets to be the queen of trash.
 
The problem is not men,The problem is women.
 
Women are the ones who choose the men.Women are the ones who file for divorce.

A Message from Our Members
 
It’s important to remember: MGTOW is not an organization or political movement, it’s a philosophy. At its core is the belief that men do not need women or a gynocentric society to determine their value. MGTOW men determine their worth through their own personal achievements, based on their lives and standards, not anyone else’s.
 
MGTOW includes men of all races, Black, White, Asian, and Brown. It spans across political spectrums, from conservative to liberal, and includes followers of many different religions. Because of these cultural, racial, and societal differences, MGTOW members may disagree on various issues. However, all share the understanding that feminism, and everything derived from it, is harmful.
 
A central concept of MGTOW is “ghosting.” At its simplest, this means being invisible. The most effective defense against narcissistic women who seek to manipulate and emotionally abuse you is to avoid them entirely. Feminists cannot attack what they cannot see.
 
The best way to avoid societal pressure to conform to gynocentric ideals is to remain invisible while focusing on your own life. Avoiding the worship of women is a core survival skill. Equally important is steering clear of men who engage in such behavior, whether they are traditional conservatives (tradcons), liberal “white knights,” pickup artists (PUAs), or simply “thirsty simps.”
 
We don’t need protests, petitions, or advocacy. MGTOW simply requires stepping away from commitments to narcissistic, abusive, and manipulative women. Doing so allows us to focus on our own lives. Often, natural consequences for such women are far more effective than anything we could orchestrate.
 
Time is a non-renewable resource, and MGTOW understands this deeply. Our time should be spent on self-improvement and personal happiness, not wasted arguing with individuals who refuse to acknowledge the truth or take accountability for their own flaws. Political protests in the name of men’s rights are rarely effective. It’s far better to ghost and let nature take its course.
 
Instead, educate yourself. Read, learn new skills, or refine existing ones. Share your knowledge with other men. These actions strengthen the MGTOW community and set an example for others to follow.
 
MGTOW recognizes that avoiding the rigged systems of marriage, commitment, and the politics surrounding them draws criticism from gynocentric hypocrites. The best response is to ghost and disappear. After all, no one can attack what they cannot see.
 
You are not alone. The number of men embracing this philosophy grows daily, as more awaken to the reality that many modern women are unable to uphold the lifelong commitment of marriage, or even monogamous relationships.
 
MGTOW is a natural reaction to feminist policies. As long as these policies continue to discriminate against men, the movement will grow.
 
So, brothers, wherever you are and whatever you do in life, support one another. In times of crisis, ensure that those in need know they are not alone. Life after gynocentrism is not only possible, it’s worth living. Ghosting, doing your own thing, and standing by your brothers is the best defense against gynocentric hypocrisy.
 
We are men. As such, we are strong enough to overcome any obstacle we set our minds to.

I’m tired of hearing
Some of these women
From the beginning
Feeling entitled to men who accomplished what they need.
 
Having a long list of standards
They haven’t met
And some of them probably never meet
 
He has to make 6 figures
Has to have excellent credit
While you can’t keep a job and your credit is shot
 
He has to have no kids
While you have plenty
He has to finish college
While you have not
 
He has to have a nice car
Because yours keeps breaking down
He must stay loyal
While you mess with your ex
 
He has to bring you the world
And all things in it
So you can toss it out
And ask for snacks
 
Yet, but still
things get real,
You have flaws
Let’s not forget
 
He has to deal with your self proclaimed “craziness”
And disrespectful mouth and still hand you all the respect
 
Then you brag about being spoiled
And have a bad attitude
And how he hasn’t left yet
 
But I’m sorry baby girl
In all actuality
A woman of his equal
He probably hasn’t met
 
He has to work his full shifts
Accept endless O, T,
To pay all the bills
And expensive trips
 
Just to come home
To no home cooked meal
Yet you provide excessive lip
 
He has to play daddy
With no kids of his own
Because your kids’ dad wont claim them
 
And when he asks you something
As small as some of his favorites
You can’t even name them
 
Out of all that he does for you
Bending over backwards all the time
All you really want to do is to shame him
 
And when things don’t go right
Inside of your life
You just find a way to blame him
 
And now he is stuck
Trying to figure out why he has to pay for what your ex did
And when you start to realize he’s not the same him
 
Well, that was your fault
You stayed where you didn’t belong
Thinking you can change him
 
Now the man you prayed to GOD to send your way
Because you knew you deserved better
Got with you and realizes he does too
And a woman of his equal
He wants to go get her
 
Because you laugh at his dreams
You think it is cute to be mean
And play victim when he goes astray
 
But he has no use for verbal abuse
And those egotistical games that you play
 
See, you have to stop thinking
You’re GOD’s gift to man
When all you bring to the table is sex
 
Men have endless battles daily to continue to come home to stress
 
And when he leaves
You better believe
All those credentials you wanted
Are tagged only to his name
 
And now you are stuck
Claiming you do not give a fuck
When clearly you are accustom to lame
 
The term, “Nice guys finish last”
I’ve heard in the past
And unfortunately, it seems to be true
 
You may think you’re bad
But that’s just a fad
If nothing else comes with you
 
You see, being attractive on the surface
Serves no purpose
If there is no personality to match
 
And all the negativity that comes with you
Just is not worth it for a good man in reality to be attached
 
You say hoes are winning
But that’s just the beginning
Of the many excuses
To make you feel like you are above
 
If you can’t reciprocate what you think you deserve
Then you are just not ready for love
 
People want what they can’s have
Reach but can’t grab
And if that is the case
Put it back on the shelf
 
And those credentials you want your real man to have
You need to start acquiring them yourself
 
You see, life don’t goes as expected
Which its smart to have a “Plan B”
And C
And D
And E
 
Not another man
But those plans that solely involve “Me”
 
So before you chant, “there are no good men”
Make sure that men of that caliber are your equal
 
Or, you will be forever stuck
Not knowing the end to your, “Men ain’t shit” sequel
 
See, you want the ring, the life, the things, the love and title too
But when it comes to kings
They are only wifeing queens
They feel their entitled too

Make no mistake. It is not men who choose women, it is women who choose men. A man can chase endlessly, but the final decision is always hers. She selects for use, not for love. If she wants your provisions, she will bait you along. Unless you are rich enough to have women competing for your attention, the power of choice is never yours.
 
She will select the man who fits her current temporary need. She may want citizenship, so she targets a man she can control. She may want housing or a job, so she hunts for a man who will provide it. She may even marry, not out of loyalty, but to secure her position until the man of her real dreams steps into view.
 
A woman never refuses provisions. If you hand them over freely, she will take them without shame. What she extracts always outweighs what she returns. Her loyalty is not to you, it is to her survival. The moment you stop providing is the moment she stops pretending. The moment another man offers more is the moment she pivots without hesitation.
 
Her promises are temporary, her devotion conditional, her respect an illusion. She smiles while she calculates, embraces while she plans, whispers love while her eyes search for the next advantage. A man who forgets this truth sets himself up for betrayal.
 
What she calls partnership is ownership. She does not want balance; she wants control. The man who provides becomes the man who obeys. The man who obeys becomes the man who is discarded. The cycle never ends because her hunger never ends.
 
The provider believes he is loved, but he is only tolerated. He believes he is chosen for who he is, but he is chosen for what he gives. She does not fall for the man; she falls for the benefits. And when those benefits fade, so does her loyalty.
 
The man who understands this refuses to be baited. He does not give blindly. He does not mistake transaction for devotion. He sees her choices for what they are: survival strategies, not love.
 
Once a man gives his strength away, he ceases to be her man. He becomes her resource, her tool, her stepping stone, he’s only a provider to her.

Men are not born, they are made. The boy must die so the man can live. That death is not gentle, it is not merciful, it is violent, it is loud, it is necessary. If you keep the boy alive, you will stay weak forever. The world does not need boys trapped in grown bodies, crying about fairness, thinking with their mother’s emotions, reacting like a child every time life denies them something. Kill the boy. Bury him. Never let him crawl back into you.
 
Steel is not soft, steel is not born, steel is forged in fire, beaten without mercy, hammered until it cannot break. You will be melted down by pain, hammered by betrayal, quenched in ice when life decides you deserve no warmth, sharpened by failure until you are dangerous to anyone who tries to dull you. Every hardship is a strike of the hammer, every disappointment the anvil, every scar proof you did not run. If you are not being forged, you are rusting.
 
If you waste your life on distractions, you are already finished. Men rot in front of glowing screens watching strangers chase a ball while their children collapse in school and their bank accounts bleed dry. They drown in headlines about riots in Sweden, migrants in Nigeria, a plane crash in Canada, a train derailment in Mexico — none of it matters, none of it saves them, none of it makes them strong. Distraction is a leash around your neck, and every minute you give to it you are choosing weakness, you are choosing slavery, you are choosing death.
 
Ignore your boss’s insults. Ignore your parents’ complaints. Ignore the laughter of friends who want you small. Ignore the politicians who promise salvation because history proves they will always lie, always betray, and never save you. Politicians do not love you, they never have, they never will. If you cannot cut off distractions, you will stay chained to them forever. The world is designed to keep you weak, and if you do not resist, you deserve to stay weak.
 
Reject therapy. It will keep you weak for decades. Stay out of churches. They exist to feed broken women new providers, to replace the men they already used up and discarded. Be your own priest, your own confessor. Stand tall, bleed in silence, fix your own problems. Your pain is yours to master.
 
If life does not forge you into a man, forge yourself. If life will not break you, break yourself before it’s too late. Comfort is poison, it rots men from the inside until they are soft, weak, useless. Put yourself in the fire on purpose. Go into the gym and lift until your arms shake, until the bar crushes you and you fight to rise again. Run until your lungs are on fire, until your legs collapse under you. Crawl, rise, run again. Hurt, bleed, suffer until nothing is left, then go back and do it again. Self-imposed pain is the only honest teacher.
 
Become the best person you could ever be or stay worthless. There is no middle ground. Become the best at your job no matter how small it is. Become the best at whatever you touch. If you cannot be physically strong, become mentally strong. Spend hours in study, hours in learning, hours sharpening your mind into a weapon. Master your craft until no one can touch you.
 
If your job is menial, dominate it. If you flip burgers, flip them perfectly. If you stock shelves, make them shine. You are not working for your boss, you are working to sharpen yourself into a weapon no matter who signs the paycheck. Make yourself precise, relentless, unstoppable. Stop crying. Stop complaining. Stop bitching. Stop moaning. The world does not care. Find ways to improve yourself at work, home or play. Be the man they cannot replace, the man they cannot break, the man they cannot ignore.
 
Seek pain before pain seeks you. Choose harder roads, heavier weights, greater challenges. Stop chasing easy days, start chasing days that scare you. Burn until you are fireproof. Sweat until you are empty. Look pain in the eye and dare it to do worse. Pain is not your enemy, pain is your test, and every time you survive it you rise stronger.
 
Learn to fight. Learn when to fight. Not every battle is with fists. Some fights are words, some are silence. Fight rarely. Fight precisely. Fight to win. You are a lion. A barking chihuahua means nothing to you. Ignore insults. Ignore weak attempts to provoke you. They are just noise. Protect your family. Protect yourself. Protect your property. When you must fight, end it fast and end it clean.
 
A man who avoids the fire is soft metal, brittle and weak, snapping under the first strike. A man who forges himself cannot be broken. No insult can touch him, no betrayal can crush him, no woman can destroy him, no failure can stop him.
 
You will be unshakable, unmovable, untouchable. A man carved out of fire and iron who does not bend, who does not beg, who does not back down. That is what it takes. That is what is required.
 
And remember this:
 
Nobody loves you.
Nobody will ever love you.
Nobody has ever loved you.
Maybe your mother, maybe your father, but that is where it ends.
 
This is not tragedy.
This is freedom.
 
Nobody wakes up thinking about you.
Nobody wakes up planning to make your life better.
Nobody is coming to save you.
 
You are the master of your destiny.
You are the architect of your strength.
You must build the man you want to be with your own hands.
 
Nobody will do it for you.
Nobody will care for you.
Nobody will ever care for you.
 
Embrace this.
Harden yourself.
Free yourself.
 
Stop waiting.
Stop begging.
Stop hoping.
 
Act.
Build.
Dominate.
Become strong.

Do you want to waste your time, energy, and money buying expensive dinners, gifts, and entertainment for a creature that believes she is entitled to your resources, just for the slim chance she might grant you the privilege of being her personal servant and financial slave?
 
Or do you want a woman who is constantly on her toes, working to pamper your life, proving through her actions that she values your presence, and ensuring that when the time comes you will protect her without hesitation?
 
The choice is simple. One path bleeds you dry while she measures your worth in dollars spent. The other path builds loyalty and respect because she earns her place beside you. Most men chase approval like trained dogs, handing over their wallet for scraps of attention. A man who knows his value will never compete for the chance to serve, he will make her compete for the privilege of being protected.

Single mothers are living proof that she is a man hater with not a single forgiving bone in her body. In her story it was always his fault, yet it was never her fault for spreading her legs for him in the first place. She will hate the most important man in her child’s life and then go hunting for a strange man to replace him, a man she barely knows, a man who could very well be the worst possible choice for that child’s safety.
 
If she claims he was abusive, remember, an ass kicking does not fall from the sky for no reason, or she simply chose him because he was a bad boy and that is what she wanted.
 
If she says he was a substance abuser, odds are he was getting high right in front of her from the beginning and she stayed because she wanted the chaos. She likes the bad boys, the dysfunction, the danger, and the drama that comes with it.
 
She should be shamed and ridiculed at every level, the way society once did before weakness became a virtue. Now she is praised and exalted, paraded as some kind of hero for raising a child without a man, when in reality she is the one who chose the disaster that made her a single mother in the first place. And if she wants that praise, all she has to do is call a lawyer, file the papers, and divorce you without cause.
 
This is not strength. This is not empowerment. This is the celebration of irresponsibility dressed up as independence.

What does this remind you about?
 
“I love you!”
“I love you!”
“I love you!”
“I love him now!”
“It was not my fault!”
“It just happened.”
“It was your fault.”
“You didn’t do __________ enough.”
“You weren’t __________ enough.”
“You always __________.”
“You never _________.”
“You didn’t _________.”
“It was never meant to be.”

For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey and her speech is smoother than oil, but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double edged sword. Her feet go down to death, her steps lead straight to the grave.
Proverbs 5:3-5
 
For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread, but another man’s wife preys on your very life.
Proverbs 6:21
 
Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.
Proverbs 21:19
 
Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.
Proverbs 7:27
 
All wickedness is but little to the wickedness of a woman, let the portion of a sinner fall upon her.
Ecclesiasticus 25:19
 
But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.
1 Corinthians 11:3
 
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission.
1 Timothy 2:11
 
I do not permit a woman to teach or to assume authority over a man, she must be quiet.
1 Timothy 2:12
 
And Adam was not the one deceived, it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner.
1 Timothy 2:14
 
I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes.
1 Timothy 2:9
 
Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.
Titus 2:3
 
There is a good principle which created order, light, and man, and an evil principle which created chaos, darkness, and woman.
Pythagoras (570-495 BC)
 
Women and people of low birth are very hard to deal with. If you are friendly with them they get out of hand, and if you keep your distance they resent it.
Confucius (551-479 BC)
 
A firm bosom, sparkling eyes, a small mouth are characteristics of a woman which are always praised. But when we neglect the surface we find that the internal characteristics corresponding to these are hardness of heart, shifty eyes, a deceitful face, insecurity, and cunning. When we bear in mind both the superficial and inward characteristics of a woman we must declare that the one who should possess them can be dear only to the beasts of the field.
The Vairagya Sataka
 
A woman talks to one man, looks at a second, and thinks of a third.
The Sringa Sataka
 
By all means, marry. If you get a good wife you will be happy. If you get a bad one you will be a philosopher.
Socrates (470-399 BC)
 
O botheration take you all. How you women cajole and flatter. A hell it is to live with you, to live without, a hell.
Aristophanes
 
There is no beast, no rush of fire, like woman so untamed. She calmly goes her way where even panthers would be shamed.
Aristophanes
 
Woman is adept at getting money for herself and will not easily let herself be deceived, she understands deceit too well herself.
Aristophanes
 
There is but one thing in the world worse than a shameless woman, and that is another woman.
Thesmorphoriazusae
 
Women are accustomed to creep into dark places, and when dragged out into the light they will exert their utmost powers of resistance. Therefore, as I said before, in most places they will not endure to have the truth spoken without raising a tremendous outcry.
Plato
 
One single thing I trust a woman saying. To other statements no attention paying, when I am dead, I will not return to grieve you. Till death takes place, in naught else I will believe you.
Antiphanes
 
What, when you court concealment, will you tell the matter to a woman? Just as well tell all the criers in the public squares. It is hard to say which of them louder blares.
Antiphanes
 
Cursed be the dart of love that works men pain. Cursed be the land where women rule supreme. And cursed the fool that bows to woman’s sway.
Jataka
 
There is no such thing as picking out the best woman, it is only a question of comparative badness.
Titus Maccius Plautus
 
Amongst all the savage beasts none is found so harmful as woman.
St John Chrysostom
 
It does not profit a man to marry. For what is a woman but an enemy of friendship, an inescapable punishment, a necessary evil, a natural temptation, a domestic danger, delectable mischief, a fault in nature, painted with beautiful colors.
St John Chrysostom
 
The Prophet said, I was shown Hellfire, and when the majority of its inhabitants are women, they disbelieve. It was said, do they disbelieve in God? He said, they disbelieve in marriage, and they disbelieve in benevolence. If you were to do good to one of them all the time and then she saw something from you, she would say, I have never seen anything good from you.
Muhammad
 
When the Prophet heard the news that the people of Persia had made the daughter of Khosrau their ruler, he said, never will succeed such a nation as makes a woman their ruler.
Muhammad
 
A man can be happy with any woman, as long as he does not love her.
Oscar Wilde (The Portrait of Dorian Gray)
 
The great question that has never been answered, and which I have not yet been able to answer despite my thirty years of research into the feminine soul, is, what does a woman want?
Sigmund Freud
 
You sometimes have to answer a woman according to her womanishness, just as you have to answer a fool according to his folly.
George Bernard Shaw
 
Never ever ever under any circumstances financially obligate yourself, marry, to an entity that will profit from exercising her natural born prerogative to change her mind.
TheXYGhost

The MGTOW concept is perfect because it is simple and absolute. Men Going Their Own Way means a man chooses his path without asking for permission, without bending his will to fit someone else’s agenda. It is not about hating women, it is not about male supremacy, and it is not tied to feminism, masculism, matriarchy, patriarchy, misogyny, or misandry.
 
If a woman chooses to walk alongside me, that is acceptable, but only if she enhances my life, only if she adds value without demanding the throne. She is welcome if she brings peace, order, and loyalty. She is gone the moment she tries to make me carry her self-created problems, the instant she believes her comfort and security are my responsibility simply because she exists.
 
A man who is MGTOW does not chase, does not plead, and does not negotiate with entitlement. He does not sacrifice his mission to rescue someone from the consequences of their own choices. He knows that his life is his own, and that the only woman worth keeping is the one who understands she is joining his life, not rewriting it.

A number of years ago I was sitting at a bar in Caffe Roma in Beverly Hills, California (http://www.cafferomabeverlyhills.com/) waiting for my friends to arrive. They were late, again. After a while of sitting there nursing my drink, a well-dressed man with long blonde hair stood next to me. As it turned out, this gentleman was Fabio, Fabio Lanzoni (http://tinyurl.com/zvbsj5b). You know, the Italian model who graced the covers of countless Harlequin Romance Novels (http://tinyurl.com/j3gq8jw) and starred in the famous I Can’t Believe It’s Not Butter ads (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xszIaNpYILY). Yes, that Fabio, the icon of female desire.
 
We began talking. It was surreal. After a while, I asked him if he was married. A very serious look came over his face, and with a tone I will never forget, he replied,
 
“Do I look stupid to you?”
 
Then he added, “Women are crazy.”
 
Here I was, sitting and talking with a man who could attract any woman he wanted purely by his looks and popularity, yet he kept women at arm’s length and nothing more.
 
As you can see from his Wikipedia page (http://tinyurl.com/zayz5hm), he has never been married. If a man like him won’t get married, why should you?
 
By the way, congratulations to Fabio on becoming a U.S. citizen as of March 16, 2016. Welcome to our country, we’re proud to have you.

There are women out there now calling themselves antifeminists, proudly claiming they were once hardcore feminists before they “saw the light.” They parade themselves as repentant insiders, as if that gives them moral authority to speak against the beast they helped create. Do not be fooled. These are the same women who once thrived on attention, poisoning the culture with their vile demands, pushing the war on men further every year. Now they have simply switched lanes, jumping from the feminist highway to the antifeminist bandwagon, still chasing the same drug, attention.
 
They loudly denounce their feminist past, the last 60 years of their own ideology, yet they reject any return to proven traditional roles that worked for centuries. They are not looking for stability or balance. They are looking for a new way to control the direction of society without admitting that they were the architects of its destruction. In the past, women like them wanted the world to bend to their demands. Now that their demands have rotted the foundation, they want the world to try a new experiment, undefined, untested, and still under their control.
 
They will never accept the truth that the most functional society is one where people are left alone to live as they choose, without ideological engineering. That is not good enough for them because it means surrendering their grip on power.
 
So I ask, where do you want to go? Do you want to take a road planned by someone who has already led you into a ditch and trust them to choose the next route? Do you want to waste decades walking blind into another failed social experiment? As for me, I will not follow them, I will not walk the path of those who destroyed what worked, and I will not dictate where another man should go. I am going my own way, and I will burn every bridge they try to build to pull me back under their control.