“Mother will make all your nightmares come true.”
Pink Floyd
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Women will try their best to kick a man out of their child’s life. Women hate men and they are jealous of a child’s love for their father. Mother wants the child’s love for her and her alone.
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I lived with my grandparents growing up. My grandmother used to provoke my grandfather over and over again, never stopping and always saying things that would trigger him. He was unfazed for hours and even days. It was not until he blew up, yelled, and slapped my grandmother that she stopped. She would then rush me out of the room, saying, “Your grandfather is mad. Stay away from him.”
The women in my family called my grandfather abusive. The men in my family saw my grandmother as the instigator.
Funny thing though, my grandfather never hit me or ever got angry when we spent hours together every day. My grandmother, on the other hand, used to find every single one of my faults, as she perceived them, and try to belittle me whenever she could.
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Many women carry resentment and distrust toward men while simultaneously depending on men for attention, validation, emotional support, security, protection, and financial stability. Many need men to build, provide, protect, and stabilize their lives while resenting the very strength, authority, and independence they rely upon. Instead of appreciating a man’s competence or accomplishments some try to sabotage his confidence, belittle his success, emasculate him publicly, or constantly criticize him because deep down they are intimidated by strong independent men. Often they do the same to their own sons, either pacifying them into weakness or humiliating and degrading them to break down their strength before it fully develops.
At the same time many women become obsessed with being loved by men. After breakups you constantly hear complaints that a man “didn’t love her enough,” “didn’t show enough affection,” or “didn’t make her feel loved enough.” The focus is usually centered on how much attention, reassurance, validation, and emotional energy she received rather than how much she gave. Many women become consumed with the need to constantly receive love, praise, and emotional stimulation from others instead of learning how to genuinely love others themselves.
Jealousy is one of the strongest emotions many women struggle with. When a child begins bonding closely with the father because he plays with them, teaches them, jokes with them, and becomes a source of excitement some mothers grow resentful and jealous of the attention and affection the child gives the father. Instead of appreciating the bond between father and child she creates tension, criticism, manipulation, arguments, and emotional drama to make the man uncomfortable in his own home so he eventually leaves and the child’s emotional loyalty returns fully to her.
At the center of it is often the need to remain the emotional focus of the household and the constant center of attention. The same behavior appears in modern dating culture where validation becomes an addiction amplified by social media and where one man’s attention is no longer enough because constant praise, reassurance, emotional stimulation, and attention from countless men becomes the real obsession.
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Women think that they are so independent but contrary to what they say, they are some of the most dependent creatures on the planet. Think about this, women need somebody to make them happy. Women seek validation through others. Women do not want to make their own lives better, but instead look for somebody else to make their lives better. They are so insanely dependent on others that they blame everybody else for their downfall.
Think about the following phrases:
“You make me happy.”
He made me angry.”
He makes me feel good.”
Listen to the songs they sing:
“You make me feel like a natural woman.”
Want you to make me feel like I’m the only girl in the world.”
Because of you I never stray too far from the sidewalk.”
You make me feel strong”
“Don’t make me close one more door.”
They are talking about emotional manipulation. They want their happiness to be provided to them. They want a provider to provide them happiness, among other things.
