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At work, my manager started dating a girl in a different department. I told him to be careful. He took my warnings lightly.
 
After a few weeks of dating and bed hopping, he took the woman to an after work gathering where someone asked if she was his new girlfriend. He replied, “I’m not sure yet, but so far, it looks good.”
 
She was furious. “What do you mean you are not sure?”
 
From what I heard, she yelled, screamed, and carried on well beyond a normal office party.
 
The next morning, he told me the story. He thought he was going to lose his job. As the day went on, Human Resources assured him his part in the incident would not hurt his career.
 
By 5pm, it was time for me to go home. My cubicle was right next to his office, and I heard the front door open and close. It was her. She stood in front of his office, explaining how last night’s incident was not her fault. He stayed at his desk, telling her it was over, and he couldn’t afford any more incidents that would damage his career.
 
She pleaded and begged him to reconsider. He stuck to his guns and said, “No.”
 
The conversation escalated from “It’s not my fault” to “You are to blame.”
 
My manager, a great friend, knew I was still at my cubicle listening to back him up if needed.
 
Noticing the encounter was heading into dangerous territory, my friend told her I was nearby to witness and protect him. I spoke up in the deepest, most authoritative voice I could muster, “Is there any trouble in there?”
 
She walked over to my cubicle, saw me, and got visibly intimidated. (I look as intimidating as a member of Tony Soprano’s crew.) I held up a broken digital camera and told her I was recording everything.
 
She looked shocked, said a few last words, and left.
 
My friend thanked me. When he found a new job, I was his first hire, and he gave me a great position.
 
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Rest in peace
Nathanial “Nate” Johnson

• I paid for the dinners
 
• I paid for the drinks
 
• I bought the flowers
 
• I bought the candies
 
• I bought the jewelry
 
• I paid for the entertainment
 
• I paid for the trips
 
I have done it all, and the recipients of the above still declared it was not enough. It is never enough. It does not work. That is why I do not do it anymore.
 
If you think I am cheap, let me tell you about a great dinner I had with my friend Gilbert Wong. Our bill was $219.93. He even guessed the amount of the bill before it arrived. He was only 7 cents off. We split the bill and enjoyed the entire evening.
 
Thanx Gil.
 
No more paying for cunts making their foodie calls.

Yes, I was a human placeholder. The good guy that came to a girl’s rescue after her bad boy, the one she picked, abused her, cheated on her, gambled, used drugs, or lived like a criminal.
 
I was that man who never cheated, who did everything I could to build her back up. I gave her the confidence she lost. I put in the work to fix what another man broke.
 
And once she felt strong again, she would run straight into the arms of another bad boy. Then she would look me in the eye and tell me I was not good enough. She would give me the goodbye kiss and sprinkle it with a fake affirmation, “But I still love you.”
 
Not anymore.
 
I will never do that again.
 
Not this man.

Are they risking their lives saving people in flood zones with their boats?
 
There were no feminists on the Titanic.
 
When it was time to save lives, it was men and men alone who went to her rescue, and not a feminist in sight.
 
When the ship was sinking, “women and children first” was not up for debate. Feminism vanished the moment sacrifice was required.

I saw this beggar on the NYC Subway today. She was claiming she was a homeless single mother with an abusive husband and now they are divorced.
 
I started thinking, was this woman in a great relationship before she went to bed with that man to get pregnant, or was this man abusive from day one? Nobody just becomes abusive out of nowhere for no reason. Abuse does not appear like magic. It shows its face early, but people ignore it when it serves their desires.
 
But since it is New York City and on the Subway, it is probably just a lie.
 
Lie or not, this woman would not be telling that story day in and day out riding one train car after another if she was not making money from the deal.
 
Men and women hand her money for her story. They pay to feel good about themselves.
 
If a man were to stand in front of them telling the same sob story, women would look down on him with disgust. They would not give him a cent. A man’s pain is not profitable. His struggles are not currency.

Of all the girls I have met and keep on meeting, I keep hearing the same stories about their last boyfriend or husband..
 
1. He was abusive.
 
• • a. This is a scam. Did she really mean she was loving, caring, giving and sharing, and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men, including you and me, and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe they found that one man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I will not believe it..
 
2. He did not give me enough attention. – Dnger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation. Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following,.
 
• • a. How much attention did he promise you?.
 
• • b. Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?.
 
• • c. Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?.
 
• • d. How much attention did he promise you when you first met?.
 
• • e. How much attention is enough?.
 
• • f. How much attention have you received since you two split?.
 
• • g. Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?.
 
3. He did not love me.
 
• • a. When I hear this, I cannot help but ask, “You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him” or “How do you measure someone’s love for you” or “Do you measure your pet’s love for you”.
 
4. He cheated on me.
 
• • a. An oldie but goodie. I have seen this a million times. Females do not mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that is the man they partnered with, and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again..
 
5. He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser.
 
• • a. Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.

I was talking to this girl once when we were discussing relationships. I asked her why she was single and she said what all girls say, “I am picky”.
 
I responded, “You will be picky until you are desperate”.
 
She snapped back, “I am not desperate”.
 
I repeated, “You will be picky until you are desperate”.
 
She paused and only said, “Oh”.
 
Then she caught herself and tried to save face, “I will never be desperate, look at this” as she sat up and displayed her body.
 
I replied with nothing but an “Oh”.
 
I think I ruined her day.

It is sad to see that every time a man talks about his cheating partner to another woman, she will waste no time blaming the man sitting in front of her. She will blame him in the following ways;
 
1. It is your fault for trusting her.
 
2. It is your fault for picking her.
 
3. It is your fault for not giving her enough.
 
4. It is your fault because maybe unconsciously, you wanted her to cheat.
 
5. It is your fault for not paying her enough attention.
 
6. It is your fault because you must have treated her badly.
 
7. It is your fault for not showing her that you love her.
 
8. It is your fault for giving her everything she wanted, because maybe she did not want what she asked for.

Women are so desperate to find a larger than life man, they will believe any liar that tells them exactly what they want to hear.
 
“I love you more than anything on this earth,” that is a lie. Nobody loves one thing so much that everything else becomes meaningless.
 
“You are the most beautiful woman I have ever seen,” another lie. Beauty is everywhere, and no man has only seen one woman in his life.
 
“You are the world to me,” if she leaves, will he stop breathing? Will his heart stop beating? That is not love, that is obsession, and obsession is weakness.
 
“I love you more than the sun, moon, sky and stars,” no man sits around loving the sun and the stars. He admires them, but life goes on whether they shine or not. Love is not poetic worship. Love is choice, not fantasy.

Four and a half years ago, my brother met a young woman. She was soft spoken, sweet, and looked angelic. At the time, she was 21 and my brother was 26. She came from a respectable family, her parents had been married until her father passed away. My father and stepmother adored her, convinced she was a perfect angel. But I caught a red flag when she told me she liked my brother because he had “so much potential.”
 
My brother and the rest of my family are unaware of the online groups or philosophies I follow, so I kept my thoughts to myself. But I couldn’t ignore the word “potential.” Potential for what? I knew she probably meant “money making potential,” but at first, I let it slide.
 
I thought about it more. Potential to be a top mechanic? A clothing designer? Her statement felt incomplete. Not grammatically, but in meaning. Did she not see potential in herself? Don’t we all have potential to achieve what we work for? Yet, she only focused on what my brother could offer her.
 
Soon after they started dating, my brother helped her get a job in the city. As second in command to the mayor, he secured her a great salary. That job opened doors, and she eventually moved to a prestigious accounting firm, earning $130,000 a year, more than my brother made.
 
During that time, they lived rent free in my father’s basement, saving money. My brother invested in distressed properties, renovated them, and built a portfolio of three investment properties with six rental units, generating steady income. They moved into a luxury apartment in the city, with a 24 hour gym, pool, sauna, jacuzzi, steam room, and sundeck. They looked like they were living the dream.
 
Then, on my brother’s birthday, she packed her things and left. She moved back to her mother’s house in another state, quitting her job without notice. She quickly shifted her dependency from my brother to her mother. She also announced she would claim full ownership of their joint properties.
 
She kept texting my brother, but when he forwarded her messages to her mother, she blocked his number. Even her mother was shocked by her behavior. Eventually, she sent him a message saying she wanted no contact for two weeks because their relationship lacked “consistency.” That vague excuse frustrated my brother. She also told him he could have affairs but forbade him from moving another woman into their apartment. It was obvious she was keeping him as a backup in case her new relationship failed.
 
When my brother went to my father’s house to talk, my father, 81 and still sharp, told him he should have been nicer to her. He still saw her as an angel and even pointed out that she made more money than my brother.
 
I couldn’t hold back. I reminded my father that my brother had launched her career, helped her prepare for interviews, and built three investment properties bringing in consistent income. I said she should be grateful to him.
 
When my brother arrived, he shared her latest demands and her vague complaints about “inconsistency.” I asked him, “What consistency did you promise her that you didn’t deliver? What consistency did she expect that you failed to provide? What consistency is she giving you while demanding two weeks of silence? Life doesn’t guarantee consistency, so why should you give her more than life itself?”
 
I spent a week with him at his place, mostly listening. We didn’t talk much, just spent nights on his rooftop deck, drinking expensive wine and champagne she had bought for special occasions. He begged me for my honest opinion. I told him, as his brother, I couldn’t be entirely neutral, but the facts were clear. She was acting like a spoiled child who didn’t know what she wanted but expected him to provide it anyway.
 
I gave him a plan. Try to get her back, but work on removing her name from their shared properties. If she returned, she needed to take a pregnancy test. If she refused, buy out her share and sue her for half the rent and utilities she owed.
 
By the end of the week, my brother took a break from everything. He took time off work and traveled to Colombia, where he is half Colombian. On his first day there, he met a woman near his aunt’s house. She paid for their meals, drinks, and drove him around in her car. My brother was stunned by her generosity. She didn’t want to move to the United States and was happy with her career, but she was glad to be his girlfriend while he was there.
 
When he returned from Colombia, his ex hit him with a lawsuit, demanding full ownership of all three properties. But when the case went to court, the judge ruled in my brother’s favor. He was ordered to pay her only $2,500.
 
Later, her lawyer told my brother he had advised her to settle for $10,000, but she had insisted on trying to take it all. After paying her legal fees, she ended up with nothing.

I have a question for everyone here
 
If you and your girlfriend or wife had a fight, whose side would your parents take?
 
In my experience, most fathers will side with the girl while the mother will defend the man. But outsiders, like cops, judges, and social justice warriors, will always side with the female no matter what.
 
Do you want me to expand this into a full brutal truth post about why fathers betray their sons in relationships?

I responded to a Craigslist personal ad titled “Buy Me A Drink” and this is how the exchange went:
 
TheXYGhost: Do you take PayPal, Bitcoin, Apple Pay?
 
Her: I’m not a hooker, asshole.
 
TheXYGhost: Good. Now tell me, how many drinks should a man buy you on the first date?
 
Her: If the man is you, zero. I’m not interested.
 
TheXYGhost: I’m not talking about me. I’m talking about your dream man, Prince Charming. How many drinks does he have to buy you before you decide he’s charming enough for you?
 
Do a lot of men jump through hoops and kiss your ass? If so, you’re a wimp magnet.
 
Her: You’re a creep. Leave me alone.
 
TheXYGhost: I’m stupid, you’re smart. I’m just trying to learn. Answer my questions and I’ll disappear. Give me some truth and I’ll even help you stock up on rum or vodka, your pick, delivered straight to you.
 
Her: (Never replied)
 
I’m devastated.

Women believe they are testing men for character, and future behavior.The intention is reasonable.The method is flawed.
 
These tests are not measurements.They are emotional impressions, formed in moments.Moments cannot predict long term reality.
 
Men think in patterns, and systems.Women think in feelings, and snapshots.Systems can be tested.Snapshots cannot.
 
Women say they test for strength, confidence, stability, leadership, and boundaries.In practice, they create artificial pressure, and judge reactions.That does not measure those traits.It measures mood tolerance.
 
Confidence is mistaken for arrogance.Calm is mistaken for indifference.Patience is mistaken for weakness.
 
She wants stability, while introducing instability.She wants leadership, while resisting being led.She wants boundaries, but pushes against them.These contradictions make real evaluation impossible.
 
Consistency cannot exist, when the rules keep changing.Decisiveness cannot be judged, when there are no real consequences.Composure in a moment, does not equal emotional regulation over time.
 
Women value independence, until it limits attention.They admire ambition, until it reduces availability.They want reliability, but confuse it with emotional responsiveness.
 
Masculinity is expected to be strong, without being threatening,Dominant, without discomfort,Authoritative, without hierarchy.
 
That version exists only as an idea.
 
These tests do not happen once.They happen repeatedly, often many times a day, sometimes consciously, often unconsciously.They are not planned exams, they are emotional spot checks, triggered by mood, stress, uncertainty, or reassurance seeking.
 
Beyond what is already described above, she is also consistently testing for additional traits, often without realizing it.
 
Other traits she is consistently testing for
 
AssertivenessResilienceSelf controlDisciplineCompetenceIntegrityStatusResourcesDominancePresenceFrameAuthority
 
These traits are not evaluated through structured observation or long term analysis.They are inferred from tone shifts, reactions, compliance, resistance, and emotional availability.
 
Because the testing is frequent, emotional, and context driven, the results are unstable.A man can pass in the morning, fail by afternoon, and be reassessed again by night, without having changed anything at all.
 
That is why performance does not work.A man cannot pass an emotional exam, with no grading system.
 
The only workable approach, is alignment.
 
Live your structure.Act consistently.Let incompatibility reveal itself.
 
That is the only test that matters.

Question 1
What would make someone worth your life and your paycheck?
 
Question 2
Can you name one song where a woman declares unconditional love for a man?
 
Question 3
Is a working wife building the family’s wealth, or hoarding her own escape fund?
 
Question 4
How have women thanked you for providing, protecting, and sacrificing?
 
Question 5
If you stopped supporting her, how much would she claim you owe?
 
Question 6
If she left over your flaws, how much would she still demand?
 
Question 7
When has a woman sacrificed for you the way you’ve sacrificed for her?
 
Question 8
If love is real, why does it collapse when comfort disappears?
 
Question 9
Why does her loyalty vanish the moment her benefits stop?
 
Question 10
If you stopped giving tomorrow, what would remain between you?
 
Question 11
How many women stayed out of gratitude, not opportunity?
 
Question 12
Without your money, shelter, and protection, what proof of love would remain?

Let’s count the people involved when you’re in a relationship with a woman:
 
1. Her parents. They constantly tell you you’re not doing enough to keep their “precious angel” happy. Makes you wonder, was she really so depressed before you met her? Meanwhile, you remember how nasty she was in bed last night. Where did she learn those moves? She’s no angel.
 
2. Her big fat ugly friend. So ugly inside and out, you wonder what attraction she has to your girl. She sticks to your girl like glue because she uses her like fishermen use chum, to attract men. You’re in her way. She wants you gone.
 
3. Her other friend with a boyfriend. She’s already decided you’re an upgrade from her own man, who’s just a placeholder. Along with friend #2, she’ll lie and manipulate your girl, convincing her you cheated. When you find your car keyed and filled with dog shit, you’ll know it’s your girl getting revenge for things you never did. What you won’t know is how these two started the whole mess. This friend might come to your aid but will never admit her role in the chaos.
 
4. Some of your guy friends. Not men. They’ll compliment your girl, telling you how lucky you are to have her, when it’s actually the other way around. Cut loose any guy who flirts with your girl.
 
As for me, I don’t play the love game. Too many bosses and haters invited into my life. I work for no one and I’m not responsible for another full grown person’s happiness.

If men stopped offering free services to women for a year, women would be begging men to be with them. They rely on what men provide, and without it, their world would fall apart.
 
• Stop helping them.
 
• Stop taking care of them.
 
• Stop explaining how the world works.
 
• Stop paying their bills.
 
• Stop fixing their problems.
 
No attitude needed. Just stop all free assistance.
 
That is the strike that would break them because if they can’t run to a man for help, their world will collapse.
 
To get this message out and accelerate collective success, men need to unite and hold firm boundaries. Share this truth openly in conversations, online communities, and social circles. Encourage accountability and stop enabling dependency.
 
Collective awareness and consistent action will shift the dynamic.

Women say they want a strong, assertive man in their lives. Ask any woman what kind of man she prefers, a King or a servant, and she will always say she wants a King.
 
But when it comes to reality, she wants a servant. She wants a subservient, submissive man who jumps to serve her, pays for her needs, funds her wants, and fulfills her desires on her terms, when she decides, how she decides.
 
The “King” is just for show, the servant is what she actually demands.

Dear Women,
 
We held doors open for you.
 
We stood up and tipped our hats when you entered the room.
 
We gave you our seats on crowded buses and trains.
 
We let you enter first, saying, “Ladies first.”
 
We shared our meals with you.
 
We gave you our coats when it was cold.
 
We fought to the death for your honor.
 
We worked daily to be your provider.
 
We made sure you left dangerous situations safely before the men did.
 
You were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You demanded rights to own property, even though there were no real restrictions before.
 
We made sure that was written into law.
 
You still were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You fought for the right to vote. Now, 100 years later, we have an overly large government that caters to every one of women’s childish complaints.
 
You still were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You were manipulated to start smoking and felt empowered. Now you smoke while pregnant, harming your unborn children.
 
You still were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You rejected the fact that men worked while you stayed home. You wanted the right to work. Now that you are self-sufficient, you still seek a man with more resources to be responsible for your every want and need.
 
You still were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You fought for the right to kill your own child, claiming the body inside your body was yours to remove. Now, 58 million children’s lives have been terminated, sanitized by calling them fetuses.
 
You still were not happy. You wanted more.
 
You fought for the right to attend college, despite women earning degrees since 1767 and the first all-female college opening in 1837. Now, more women than men have college degrees, with more scholarships and grants earmarked for women because giving those only to men is “sexist.” Yet, 73% of the workforce and the overwhelming majority of millionaires and billionaires are still men. Women do not financially support men.
 
Now we know, after 60 years of feminism and the women’s liberation movement, that women are never happy and always want more.

There are many reasons a woman will end a relationship and the truth is almost never what men assume. Men are raised to believe breakups come from arguments misunderstandings or love simply fading away. They imagine if they stay loyal and supportive the bond will survive anything. That belief keeps men blind.
 
What they do not see is that sometimes a woman will deliberately spark drama to open the exit door. She may provoke an argument create a disagreement or invent a false accusation because chaos gives her the justification she needs to leave without looking like the bad one. If you ask most women why they divorced or ended a relationship they will usually give one of three answers infidelity physical abuse or drug abuse. Those explanations sound clean final and unquestionable. But one side of a story does not make a conviction.
 
A breakup does not begin the day she says the words. It begins quietly. It begins in her mind. There is a moment when she stops seeing you as the man she chose and starts seeing you as the man she tolerates. It is a shift so small you hardly notice it but everything changes from that point forward.
 
She Found a New PartnerShe leaves because she has found another man. She asks to stay friends because she wants you as a backup plan in case the new man rejects her. To secure her new position she will paint you as the villain. She tells him you were abusive unfaithful or controlling because victims get rescued and villains get replaced. If you accept her back into your life she loses all respect for you. You become the man who waited while she tasted a new life. You become the man willing to swallow betrayal. Once someone sees you as weak the dynamic is broken forever. The cruelest part is this. She will rewrite history to justify her escape. In her mind you are no longer the man who stood by her. You become the mistake she had to correct. The entire relationship collapses into a story she tells herself to defend her betrayal.
 
She Put the Relationship on a BreakShe puts the relationship on hold or calls for a break. The truth is she has likely found another man she believes has higher status than you. Calling it a break gives her a loophole to explore options without feeling like a cheater. In her mind she is free to experiment while you wait in silence. When a woman asks for a break send her away. A relationship is not a device with play pause resume settings she controls for convenience. If she wants a break she already broke it.
 
She Thinks You Are BoringA woman may leave because she thinks you are boring. In her mind you are responsible for her excitement. She believes you must provide happiness and stimulation on demand. Listen to the language. He makes me happy. He makes me smile. He makes me mad. She assigns you ownership of her emotions as if you control them. She chose to smile. She chose to get mad. She chose to be happy. But she blames you for causing it. When someone depends on you to create their feelings they are not in love with you they are addicted to the effect you have on them. By giving you responsibility for their emotions they also give you blame for their disappointments. She calls you boring because it is easier than admitting she is responsible for her own emptiness.
 
What many women find boring are the traits of a successful man. Emotional stability consistency discipline and self control. He does not chase drama beg for validation or manufacture chaos to feel alive. He brings calm order and direction. That silence terrifies those addicted to emotional noise. What they call boring is strength without spectacle and discipline without theatrics.
 
She Feels Above YouA woman will leave the moment she believes she has outgrown you. From the beginning she treated the relationship like a comparison. The day she decides her value has risen and yours has stalled everything shifts. You stop being her partner and become her obstacle.
 
You hear it in the language. She says she needs a man who can keep up with her. These are not expressions of love they are rankings. She measures worth by income title education and social visibility. Men do not speak this way. A man does not say he wants a woman who can keep up with him. Only women turn love into a competition.
 
Once she places herself above you the relationship is already collapsing. She no longer sees you as a partner but as a stepping stone. Her sense of superiority does not come from truth but from an imagined hierarchy where status defines worth.
 
She Wants You as a PlaceholderSometimes a woman does not choose you she parks on you. You fill time provide security and stand guard while she scans for the man she really wants. You are not the destination you are the waiting room.
 
The moment that man appears your value collapses. If you are treated like a convenience you already have your answer.
 
You Outlived Your Intended UseTo her you were useful for a specific purpose. Once that purpose was fulfilled your usefulness expired. You were not chosen for who you are but for what you could provide at that moment.
 
She may have wanted access to your circle stability or resources. In many cases she is not seeking partnership but leverage. A contract marriage a child and a future settlement. Once those boxes are checked your role ends.
 
She Wants Revenge by Proxy
 
Sometimes a woman believes she was betrayed by another man and wants revenge. She cannot reach the original source so she redirects the punishment. Another man absorbs the anger for an injustice he did not commit.
 
He becomes a stand in for the past. She unloads unresolved wounds and calls it healing. In reality he is paying another man’s debt.
 
She Is Testing Your LoveWomen test men constantly emotionally psychologically and behaviorally. One common test is the manufactured breakup. She pulls away to measure your reaction. If you beg she loses respect. If you accept it calmly she rewrites the story and claims you never loved her. The test was never about love. It was about control. Most tests manufacture loss rather than measure devotion.
 
She Wants to Punish YouShe is angry because you did not notice the salon visit the hair the nails or the dress. In her mind that proves you do not value her as much as she believes you should.
 
You glance at another woman. She becomes jealous. You work with a woman she has never met. Your job becomes the problem. She demands compliance not reason. When she leaves she builds a story where she is justified. The breakup becomes punishment not separation.
 
She Finds Your WeaknessWhen a woman finds a man’s weakness the shift is instant. Respect does not fade it collapses.
 
One woman admitted she lost respect for her fighter boyfriend the moment she saw him hesitate in a fight. Another divorced her husband after seeing him cry at his father’s funeral. Weakness once seen cannot be unseen.
 
Not Enough AttentionThis excuse has existed for decades. It is vague undefined and impossible to satisfy.
 
How much attention is enough. Is too much still not enough. Did you ever explain your needs. Can any one person provide unlimited emotional supply.
 
When a requirement cannot be defined it can never be satisfied.
 
She Wants to See You HurtAcross social media a new pattern has emerged. Women openly brag about hurting men for entertainment. This behavior is not traditional. It is recent calculated and accelerating. What once happened privately now happens publicly rewarded with attention and praise. Ignoring it comes at a cost.
 
The Truth Beneath Every BreakupDespite the variety of reasons the underlying pattern is always the same.
 
Number one. She is always innocent in her own story. She rewrites the past until she becomes the victim and you become the shadow she escaped.
 
Number two. You are wrong by default. Your intentions loyalty and sacrifices no longer matter. Her comfort requires your condemnation.
 
Number three. When she initiates a breakup she expects you to panic and beg. When you accept it calmly her entire script collapses. Nothing hurts more than a man who gives her exactly what she asked for. In that moment she realizes she never had power over you at all.

• A man is the most beautiful part of God’s creation.
 
• He sacrifices his dreams just to see a smile on his parents’ faces.
 
• He spends his entire pocket money on gifts for the woman he loves, just to make her smile.
 
• He gives up his youth for his wife and children, working late nights without complaint.
 
• He builds their future by taking loans and repaying them for a lifetime.
 
• He struggles endlessly and still faces scolding from his mother, wife, and boss.
 
• His life ends up defined by compromises made for others’ happiness.
 
• If he goes out, he’s careless.
 
• If he stays home, he’s lazy.
 
• If he scolds his children, he’s a monster.
 
• If he doesn’t scold them, he’s irresponsible.
 
• If he stops his wife from working, he’s insecure.
 
• If he doesn’t stop her, he lives off her earnings.
 
• If he listens to his mother, he’s a mama’s boy.
 
• If he listens to his wife, he’s her slave.
 
• If he doesn’t play, he’s too serious and stiff.
 
• If he plays, he’s a joker who never matures.
 
• If he dresses well, he’s extravagant and possibly a womanizer. If he doesn’t, he’s a loser and not a gentleman.
 
• If he helps his wife, he’s taken for granted as a fool. If he doesn’t, he’s cruel and wicked.
 
• Respect every man in your life. You never know what he has sacrificed for you.
 
• Worth sending to every man to make him smile, and every woman to make her realize his worth.
 
• Remember, June is Father Appreciation Month.

We all know the feminist myth that women make 77 cents to a man’s dollar. The reason behind that gap is simple, women refuse to take on the hard, dirty, dangerous jobs that men do. You will rarely see women lining up to become mechanics, plumbers, electricians, painters, drywall installers, carpenters, roofers, truck drivers, miners, or any other labor-intensive, high-risk profession.
 
But there are industries where women not only participate, but dominate, earning far more than their male counterparts doing the exact same job.
 
Here are the lines of work where women out-earn men:
 
1. Models – The top female fashion models make tens of millions, with some reaching $377 million, while the top male model barely scrapes past $1.5 million.
 
2. Pornography – Female adult performers command higher pay, more exposure, and dominate the revenue in the industry, while male performers are often seen as disposable.
 
3. Strippers – Strip clubs and gentlemen’s clubs are flooded with women earning thousands a night. Male strippers are a rare novelty and don’t come close in earnings.
 
4. Waitresses / Bartenders – Attractive women in these roles pull in far more in tips than their male counterparts, especially in nightlife and upscale venues.
 
5. Childcare – Though not glamorous, women dominate this field and, in private arrangements like nannies and au pairs, can command premium rates over men.
 
6. Nursing – In certain specialties, female nurses are preferred and often offered better scheduling and client-facing roles, translating into better compensation packages.
 
7. Real Estate Sales – Women in real estate often out-earn men through networking, leveraging social charm, and client preference for female agents.
 
8. Spouse – Marriage itself is a financial arrangement where women can secure lifelong financial support, even after divorce, through alimony and child support, regardless of their contribution to the marriage.
 
9. Doctor – In specific fields like dermatology, pediatrics, and obstetrics, female doctors can out-earn male counterparts due to patient preferences and practice dynamics.
 
10. Social Worker – In roles involving children, families, or victims, women are often favored, leading to faster promotions and preferred caseloads with financial incentives.
 
The narrative that women are always victims in the wage gap conversation falls apart when you look at industries where female dominance is undeniable and their paychecks reflect that.

When a man partners with a woman, he immediately becomes a second class citizen, never to be believed. He becomes her provider, her breadwinner, her personal ATM machine. Once she is comfortable with what he provides, she gives up on her responsibilities and dumps them on his shoulders. He becomes her workhorse, expected to carry the load until the day he collapses. And when he does, she discards him like a broken tool and starts shopping for his replacement, an upgrade.
 
If she lies and tells the world he hit her or cheated on her, the world rushes to her defense. She’s too cute to lie. He’s guilty by default. He gets punished. His child is ripped away from him. She gets the sympathy, the attention, the support, while the world plays hero and rescues her from the “abusive” man.
 
If a man sees this cycle repeat with every woman he partners with, society still blames him. He’s told it’s his fault for picking the wrong woman, for not predicting her future behavior, for not seeing the red flags that she hid.
 
But if that man chooses not to partner with women anymore, if he decides to walk away from the game entirely, the world brands him a loser or mocks him with slurs. They will shame him relentlessly, not because he failed, but because he refuses to be used.

She will use every weapon in her arsenal to force you into commitment. She will shame you, pressure you, make demands, manipulate you, and rally her friends and family to corner you. In some cases, she will even use her own kids to push you into submission.
 
But commitment is always one way. You commit to her. She will never commit to you.

When I was 26, I dated a 38 year old woman. Later, I found out she had a net worth of $41 million. My first thought was simple, this could work. She liked me, I liked her, we made a good couple. Money shouldn’t have been an issue. She had her own, I had my own. It should have been that simple.
 
But it wasn’t.
 
She had a problem with the fact that I couldn’t afford the kind of vacations she was used to. That was the dealbreaker. Not compatibility, not connection, not character, just the fact that I couldn’t match her spending habits.
 
Needless to say, she ended it.

I really don’t care what any PickUp Artist has to say. The best way to get a girl to notice you is to never acknowledge her looks with the usual weak compliments like “Gorgeous” or “Beautiful.” That’s just kissing her ass and putting yourself beneath her. It screams submission.
 
If you want to stand out, you need to scrutinize her. Call out any imperfections you see immediately. Show her that you’re not blinded by her looks and that you don’t fall in line like every other guy begging for her approval. That’s how you flip the script.