She doesn’t want to be a wife, she doesn’t want a husband. She wants an equal partner where she sets the ever changing terms.
 
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A real woman does not blame others.
 
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Her : It wasn’t my fault. It just happened.
 
TheXYGhost : Nothing is ever your fault.

Her : He never cared.
 
TheXYGhost : I cared enough to walk away before it got worse.t

Her : I’m the prize.
 
TheXYGhost : You do have potential. I’m sure some guy will give you a chance.

A real woman is the source of a man’s peace and comfort.
 
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She is twice divorced and has 3 kids from 3 different men, and you think she loves you?
 
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Her : He’s emotionally abusive.
 
TheXYGhost : Emotional abuse is ignoring facts and playing victim. I don’t do that.

A real woman does not crave overly expensive clothes and jewelry.
 
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Her : Why are you still single?
 
TheXYGhost : I can’t find a woman that can buy the type of car I want.

Her : He ruined my life.
 
TheXYGhost : I didn’t ruin anything. I walked away from someone who was already broken.

She pouts and withdraws when she’s upset, waiting for the man she’s angry at to notice and pry her feelings out of her.
 
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A real woman does not test members of her family.
 
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Her : There’s plenty of fish in the sea.
 
TheXYGhost : I prefer a filet mignon.

Her : He’s a misogynist and hates women.
 
TheXYGhost : I respect real women. I despise manipulative behavior. There’s a difference.

Her : I want to find a man on my level or higher.
 
TheXYGhost. : Every man is higher than your level.

A real woman does not shame others.
 
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Her : I left him because he always did what I told him.
 
TheXYGhost : Why did you ask for what you didn’t want?

Her : He’s heartless and cold.
 
TheXYGhost : I’m cold to nonsense and heartless to lies. That’s called boundaries.

It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
 
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A real woman does not manipulate.
 
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He never cheated on his wife for 40 years. He asked my advice and 10 years later, he slept with over 300 women.
 
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Her : He’s a manipulator.
 
TheXYGhost : Manipulation is for weak minds. I speak truth and stand by it.

It’s never about her lacking acceptance, forgiveness, gratitude, or appreciation. He is always expected to do more for her.
 
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A real woman does not drive her children against their fathers.
 
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