The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen
TheXYGhost = The Missing Man
MGTOW = Men Going Their Own Way
MGHOW = Men Going His Own Way
TheXYGhost - The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen
Salesgirl: Sir, do you want to try Legend by Mont Blanc today?
TheXYGhost: Does it drive the women crazy?
Salesgirl: It sure does.
TheXYGhost: I have too many crazy women around me. Do you have something that makes them sane?
When I was 16 years old, I had a heated argument with my mother. In an attempt to get away from her escalating rage, I brushed past her. That was all it took. She picked up the phone and called the cops, telling them I beat her. She lied, without hesitation. By the next day, thanks to my sister, every kid in the neighborhood believed I was a violent thug who assaulted his own mother.
Fast forward to the day my mother and my sister got into one of their infamous battles. They destroyed the living room. The television was smashed. Dishes shattered across the floor. They clawed and punched each other like enemies in a street brawl until they were both on the floor, yanking each other’s hair and bleeding from the face.
I walked into that war zone, stunned. My sister ran out the door like a coward. My mother, the same woman who lied to the police and destroyed my name, sat there in tears and said she felt sorry for my sister. Her excuse? “She’s confused.”
The same sister who beat her bloody got a sympathy pass. No cops were called. No rumors were spread. Not a single word was said to the neighborhood.
Because when a boy makes one wrong move, he’s branded for life. But when a girl causes chaos, she gets coddled, protected, and forgiven like it never happened.
“Feminism is an ideology that can not be defended by feminists. The only people that can defend feminism are the men that subscribe to that garbage.”
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”
She spent her life knocking men down one after another, year after year, telling herself she was above them. Telling herself they were disposable. Telling herself their only value was what they could provide before being dismissed. Respect was never offered because she believed she had already earned superiority just by existing. Over time that belief hardened into habit, and habit turned into identity.
Men reached their limit.
Women announced loudly and repeatedly that they are strong, powerful, and independent. They said they do not need men. They said they do not want protection. They said male presence is intrusive, threatening, unnecessary. Men listened. And instead of arguing, they adjusted.
They stepped back.
Not because they became weaker. But because they became aware.
Helping now carries risk. Stepping in can destroy a man’s life. Intervention no longer comes with gratitude. It comes with lawsuits, accusations, job loss, public shame, and permanent damage. Men have watched this happen in real time.
One man pulled a woman out of the path of a moving train and was sued. Another pushed a woman out of the way of an oncoming truck while she crossed the street staring at her phone and was sued. These stories spread for a reason. They are not anecdotes. They are warnings.
So men adapted.
They stopped rushing in. They stopped intervening. They stopped protecting strangers who openly declare that men are a threat and a liability. When society tells a man that his help is unwanted and dangerous, he believes it. When he is punished for decency, he learns silence.
This is not cruelty. This is consequence.
You cannot spend decades degrading men and still expect them to risk everything for you in a moment of danger. You cannot strip men of dignity, authority, and trust, then demand sacrifice on command.
Protection was never automatic. It was never guaranteed. It existed because there was mutual respect and shared responsibility.
That bond was broken deliberately.
And the absence you feel now, when no man steps forward, is not abandonment.
It is men doing exactly what they were told to do.
The arrogance of some women who do not think they are cheating when they are in bed with a married man is staggering. They believe they are next in line for a ring and a white gown.
I want to yell at these women, “HEY, STUPID! HE IS MARRIED, YOU IDIOT! IF YOU MARRY HIM, YOU ARE MARRYING A CHEATER!”
Men almost never initiate divorce. The cost is too high. The game is rigged and the judges are one sided. You will never see a woman giving half her wealth, the house, and the kids to the man, let alone paying him alimony.
When you ask why, you will always hear, “Because I love him.”
These women actively scout social settings looking for a band of gold on a man’s finger. That ring is their proof he is a good provider. They do not bother analyzing anything themselves.
There are men who do not cheat, and there are women who want that man. Those women will stop at nothing to break up the union.
I have seen women in offices putting lipstick on their finger pretending to fix their boss’s collar before leaving. They dab lipstick on the collar and when the wife sees it at home, that is all she needs to prove her husband is cheating. Cue the lawyers ready to profit from the misunderstanding.
I have heard of women throwing their panties in the back seat of a married coworker’s car to start drama. When he divorces, she consoles him and gets close.
Men are treated as property by women. Don’t believe otherwise.
• Stop competing with men on every level.
• Stop being combative.
• Stop constantly testing men.
• Stop faking ailments for attention.
• Stop speaking in hints.
• Stop creating drama.
• Stop acting immature.
• Stop playing the victim.
• Stop telling others private details about your life with your husband.
• Stop putting yourself in dangerous situations and expecting men to save you.
• Stop questioning our every move.
• Stop focusing on our flaws while ignoring your own.
• Stop using double standards.
• Stop expecting us to read your mind.
• Stop treating us like projects to fix.
• Stop withholding affection as a manipulation tactic.
• Stop comparing us to other men.
• Stop assuming the worst about our intentions.
• Stop making everything a power struggle.
• Stop belittling our interests and hobbies.
• Stop bringing up past arguments to win current ones.
• Stop expecting us to be perfect while accepting flaws in yourself.
• Stop dismissing our feelings just because we express them differently.
As of 2024, total student loan debt sits at $1.6 trillion. Women hold over 67 percent of it. That is $1 trillion in debt owed by women. Over 60 percent of college degrees are now held by women.
Many of these women spend their prime years chasing degrees instead of building relationships. They believe status will make them more attractive to men, the same way they view a man’s education as desirable. They think that if they achieve enough status, a high-caliber man will marry them, pay off their student loans, and give them the financial stability to quit working.
It is a strategy built on the belief that a man should be the reward for her ambition, and the solution to the debt she chose to create.
There is a deep-rooted problem with women who refer to men as a “provider.” They love the word but completely distort its meaning. To them, a provider isn’t a partner, it’s a servant. A full-time, around-the-clock ATM with emotional support on tap, attention on demand, and no room to breathe.
She wants you grinding 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, not to build a life together, but to fund her fantasy. And GOD forbid you focus on anything other than her. She expects you to be at her disposal no matter what you’re doing or what you’re dealing with.
1. If she’s not excited, you’re responsible for providing her with non-stop entertainment like a human amusement park.
2. If she’s unhappy, it’s your fault. You failed to deliver happiness on a silver platter, like a jester groveling before royalty.
3. Try telling her that happiness comes from within, and she’ll glare at you like you just told her she’s responsible for her own life. The horror.
4. If you’re not reaching her sky-high delusional goals fast enough, resentment sets in. Slowly. Quietly. She’ll begin to destroy what you love, not to hurt you directly, but to remind you that your joy can’t be allowed to outshine her.
I’ve seen this play out. Women destroying cars, businesses, reputations, even weaponizing the children, just to punish a man who failed to give them what no one on earth could promise: endless validation and joy.
One girl told me straight out that she hated her boyfriend so much she planned to destroy what he loved most. When I asked what that was, she looked me dead in the eye and said, “Me.” That’s how deep the spite runs. She was ready to ruin herself just to ruin him. I couldn’t even process what that entailed.
Another woman complained her marriage had no excitement, said it was ruining her life. I told her to find a hobby, a purpose, something to fulfill her. She snapped back, “That’s his job!” Like her soul was on lease and her husband was late on payments.
She ended up cheating with the man who brought her “excitement.” Her husband caught them. Now she’s divorced, and that second man vanished like smoke. Where’s the excitement now?
These types never initiate anything. They expect the world to move on its own if it’s “meant to be.” They cling to that phrase like gospel because it absolves them of action, effort, and accountability.
And when they destroy a man’s life? Don’t expect other women to call it out. Another woman will step in and say it’s the man’s fault for not stopping her. They move as a collective, defending dysfunction, never holding each other accountable.
It’s not love they want. It’s a life of royalty, funded, entertained, and shielded from responsibility. And when the illusion breaks, they burn everything on their way out.
Never. Ever. Under any circumstances. Date a single mother. No matter what.
1. You are putting yourself in a position where you can be accused of sexually abusing a child that is not yours. It only takes one lie to destroy your life.
2. In some countries, you will be legally obligated to pay child support for children that are not biologically yours. You will be financially enslaved to a child you never fathered.
3. Single mothers are desperate for resources. They do not care about you. They care about what you can provide. You are not being chosen for who you are. You are being selected as a sponsor.
4. You will become her newest babysitter. Your social life, your freedom, your time, it will vanish. Your life will revolve around her children, not by choice, but by expectation.
5. If she cannot love or forgive the man who gave her that child, what chance do you think you have? You are disposable. You are a utility.
6. Between her career, her children, her family, and her constant interactions with the child’s father, you will be squeezed in wherever you can do chores or pay bills. You are not her priority. You are her handyman.
7. Ask yourself this, if you were ejected from your own family, would you want another man stepping in to raise your child? Exactly.
8. Her ex is not gone. He is permanently in the picture. For the next 18 years, minimum. His presence will hover over every aspect of your relationship.
9. The moment you correct that child for misbehavior, you will hear the sharp retort, “You’re not my father.” You will have all the responsibilities of fatherhood and none of the respect.
10. Discipline that child, and you risk the child fabricating stories that will trigger violent retaliation from the biological father. You are one accusation away from a biker gang father showing up at your door.
11. I have listened to countless women casually joke about having affairs with their stepfathers. Most of these stories are fantasies, but imagine the moment one of those fantasies gets twisted into an accusation. You will be labeled a predator, your name destroyed, your life ruined, all because of a girl’s fantasy mistaken for truth.
You are gambling with your life, your freedom, and your future. Do not be naive. Single mothers are not looking for love. They are looking for resources, labor, and a scapegoat.
Never date a single mother. Ever.
I had a late lunch with my liberal, leftist, Democrat sister. Three kids from three different men. She lives in NYC public housing on government money. Three child support checks, subsidized rent, free gas and electricity, food stamps, and welfare. She sublet one bedroom for market rate cash while working an off the books job. Now that her kids are grown, she bought a waterfront house in cash while still keeping her subsidized apartment.
She calls Trump a racist who is using the presidency to make himself richer. She never questions the $149 million Hillary Clinton made as Secretary of State or the $31 million in four mansions she owns. She condemns Trump for ending the war in Syria while worshipping Obama, who campaigned on ending wars yet started twelve, including the very one Trump ended. And Obama got a Nobel Peace Prize before he even had two months in office.
The truth is simple, she wants to protect her current husband, the government. That is her provider now.
During our talk, I said every woman hates her husband. She snapped back, “I never hated any of my husbands, I just knew it was time for them to leave.” Translation, she discarded them when they no longer served her.
From the beginning of time, men have balanced careers with the duty of providing for and protecting their families. In prehistoric days, men rose before the sun to feed livestock, guard their homes, and ensure the survival of everyone under their care. This role was never optional. It was expected, and for generations men fulfilled it without fail.
Even in modern times before feminism, men provided and protected while going to school, working multiple jobs, and building their futures. They didn’t complain, they didn’t demand sympathy, and they didn’t put family on hold for personal ambitions. They handled it all because that’s what was required.
But in the last 50 years, the modern woman boasts that she is superior to the men of the past while avoiding every dangerous job those men still do. She loudly proclaims she needs no man, yet freezes her eggs well into her 40s because she put her family on hold chasing a career. She claims she can multitask better than men, yet proves otherwise when her personal timeline collapses and biology refuses to cooperate.
If women were truly capable of building and maintaining a family while pursuing a career, they wouldn’t be paying doctors to preserve the possibility of motherhood for a future that may never come. The truth is simple, men have always been able to carry both burdens, while women prove time and again they cannot.
“Classy women don’t lie. Weave is a lie, make-up is a lie, waist trainers are a lie, spanks are a lie, girdles are a lie. Stop lying.
You must dress like a woman: skirts, skirts and more skirts. Skirts and dresses.
Get rid of the flip-flops. Get rid of the sandals and dress like a grown up woman.
Get rid of the yoga pants and anything that shows your natural *ss. Get rid of things that show your midriff or your stomach.
We don’t need to see all of that, that’s for your man.”
-Kevin Samuels
“The Godfather”
They become whatever men require of them. That’s their entire game. That’s why they always ask the same question, “What kind of woman do you like?” It’s not because they care about compatibility. It’s because they want instructions. They want men to hand them a blueprint so they can perform like chameleons until the target is secured.
I’ve spoken to too many of them to fall for the act. They’re not unique. They’re not mysterious. They’re not complicated. They’re running the same software with different lipstick. They will say and do whatever it takes to get a man to open his wallet, his door, and his life. Once they get what they want, the mask comes off.
At their core, they’re looking for someone to put food in their mouths. That’s the mission. Everything else is theater. They will act submissive, loyal, nurturing, until they get the house, the ring, the car, the lifestyle. Then they switch up. Every time.
They hear “The grass is always greener on the other side” and treat it as a call to action. A roadmap. Not a warning. It tells them to keep looking, keep climbing, keep trading up. It tells them that loyalty is for fools and commitment is a burden.
They don’t want to be better women. They want to be whatever gets them paid. Until it stops working.
The MGTOW concept is perfect because it is simple and absolute. Men Going Their Own Way means a man chooses his path without asking for permission, without bending his will to fit someone else’s agenda. It is not about hating women, it is not about male supremacy, and it is not tied to feminism, masculism, matriarchy, patriarchy, misogyny, or misandry.
If a woman chooses to walk alongside me, that is acceptable, but only if she enhances my life, only if she adds value without demanding the throne. She is welcome if she brings peace, order, and loyalty. She is gone the moment she tries to make me carry her self-created problems, the instant she believes her comfort and security are my responsibility simply because she exists.
A man who is MGTOW does not chase, does not plead, and does not negotiate with entitlement. He does not sacrifice his mission to rescue someone from the consequences of their own choices. He knows that his life is his own, and that the only woman worth keeping is the one who understands she is joining his life, not rewriting it.
I was working in this large government agency in NYC in the computer lab with a female coworker. She was OK, maybe because I kept my distance from her.
We needed an assistant and hired a man that was just let go from Montclair State University. You see, his previous manageress and part time tyrant called him useless every chance she had. I remember the first day he showed up for work in his tie and white shirt, I told him to dress down. The computer lab was in a remote building far away from anyone ever seeing us. The next day he showed up in khakis and a dress shirt, I insisted that he dress down further. After all, I was in jeans and a teeshirt every day. By his third day, he was wearing jeans.
I quickly knew that this job was way below his capabilities and told him so before the end of his first week. The look of shock on his face was a combination of “Is he going to fire me because I’m over qualified?” and “I never thought I was so valuable.”
Needless to say, we bonded instantly. He introduced me to an “Open Source” programming language and we would talk about relationships and our respective single moms. It was amazing how his psycho mom was so much like mine in many ways.
As luck would have it, a few short months later, my manager was fired by the project leader and upper management was upset that the project leader didn’t hire a replacement before firing my manager. With a little quick thinking, the project manager said he did hire someone for my manager’s job. Now my assistant became my manager.
I was OK with his new position, he had to dress the part and deal with the real idiots, the executives. He immediately apologized for his quick promotion and I laughed, congratulating him for doing a job I would have refused. Over the years, we had a very great friend manager relationship. He politely did his job and I respected his position all while being friends.
Years went by and the project ended. I went my way and he went his. He ended up working for this technology firm starting salary $240,000 a year plus bonus and stock options. This was a far cry from useless his previous manager would have him believe.
The funny part of the story is that his previous manager in MSU got fired herself and moved back to Ohio where she is the assistant manager of a local supermarket.
There was this article sent to me back in 2009.
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I read it and thought it was weak. Then I looked at the author and found out a woman wrote this. So, I decided to write my own article. I started writing it back then, but for some reason, I had to stop. This week, 8 years later, I finished my version of the article, finishing items #1 & #2 just now.
Top 10: Cruel Things Women Do to Men and How to Avoid Them.
10: They Don’t Pick Up The Phone.
Girls relinquish their responsibilities when it comes to the initiation of relationships. They feel any action on their part is an act of desperation. Let’s face it, when was the last time a girl took you out, asked for your contact information or even bought you a drink to get to know you? Even after the courtship is over and the wedding ring has been on for many years, girls will still complain that their husbands will not take them out as if they had no ability to go out on their own or even set up something for the man they claim to love. Some girls feel that returning a call is too much work putting towards the relationship start up. Barring the fact that you are some notable, wealthy individual, she will never initiate a conversation with you let alone ask you for your number. Although girls require men to take the initiative in the courtship process, they will label unwanted men desperate for taking the same action they expect from a man they desire. Girls have a much stronger need to be in a relationship than men because their principle needs are their personal security. A man around to protect her is a major step up to her security needs. Chances are that her grandmother, in the 1960’s, burned her bra and raised her fists in solidarity along with Gloria Steinem, Jane Fonda and Billy Jean King to prove they are equal to men. There is no equality. Men are men and women are women and they will never be equal. With that in mind, if you happen to get a phone number from a girl, and that number happens to be real, treat all women equally. When you do call and get to the point of leaving a voicemail, leave only one message and one message only. At the end of that message, in a nice way, state that if she doesn’t call back that it was good meeting her. After that call, never call her again! If you do call her again, she will then know that she means more to you than you mean to her. She may even label you a “Puppy dog” if you call a third and fourth time. Either case, it’s a bad place to be if she thinks you need her more. You never ever give away a valuable prize cheaply. If she wants to earn the type of security that a man is capable of giving, she has to earn that prize. A man has the innate ability of sacrificing his own life to protect others. A long time ago, I was told that if you ask more than once, you are begging. Don’t beg for the chance of giving away a million-dollar prize that is innate in you.
9: They Use Men for Free Drinks, Dinners and Nights Out.
This has always been true. Girls do this and you need to understand that. Girls use men to pay for this petty vice more blatantly than ever before. Some girls deliberately leave their homes without any cash in their pockets as insurance that they will not buy their own drinks. Never put yourself in the position that you have to buy a girl something she has yet to earn. Do not be her personal automatic teller machine. Do not be her sucker. Girls hate suckers yet they are great in making men their sucker for a day. Don’t prove to her how big of a sucker you can be. You are not so desperate for a conversation that you have to pay someone to listen to you. In a bar situation, you should only approach girls with a drink in their hand when you have a drink in yours. If she finishes her drink quickly in order for you to pay for another one, ask her, “Is that the cost of talking to you?”, and walk away. She may slap you, but read on how to deal with that. Maybe it would be better to just walk away without saying a word. I usually leave with this quote; “Now I see why you are a magnet to wimpy and desperate boys”. My line of thought is that someone desperate for conversation will pay for someone to listen to them.
8: They Use Men As Placeholders
A placeholder needs to be explained. Since a girl’s first priority is her self-security, she needs a man around her until she finds “the right one for her”. Put simply, a placeholder is a man that she is with until she finds the man she wants. Girls usually do not leave their man until they have someone to go to. In some cases, that go-to place is their parents’ place. You can avoid being a placeholder by making sure that she earns the abilities you possess that she needs. Show that you are not tolerant of nonsense. Even though she wrongly earmarks you for a placeholder, she will eventually see that she has to earn you as a prize and then she will respect you. There’s more about that coming up.
7: They Emotionally Manipulate Men
This is as straightforward as I can get without a prescription; immune yourself from the most powerful weapon a woman has against you. Superman has his Kryptonite but unlike Superman, you can remove this deadly weapon from your life. Crying is emotional blackmail and girls can cry on command as easy as your uncle could fart on command when he told you as a child “Pull my finger”. Girls get a lot of mileage from crying and they use it whenever and however they can against you. Unless your girl is physically hurt and injured, ignore all tears and get to the point at hand or excuse yourself away from her as fast as possible until the tears are gone. When she sees that you are not putting up with her nonsense, you win. Crying and other emotional tactics in her arsenal are a way that she regresses her behavior to resemble a helpless child. If a child gave you that look, pouted and cried, you are still going to say no to more candy.
6: They Use Violence
Men know that physical violence is the last resort of any confrontation. Girls on the other hand have never experienced the physical ramifications of their violent attack. Men won’t hit back. Being a woman does not give you special rights to assault anyone whenever you want without repercussions. Men are told never to hit women under any circumstances but what is a man to do if his child is being attacked by a crazed woman? If you are hit by a girl that you know, stop everything and make a really big deal about her hitting you. Do not hit back but make it a really big deal and verbally reprimand her for doing that. There is no excuse for hitting and you have to show her that you are not playing games in this serious matter. Raise your voice and keep focused on the fact that she hit you and you are not taking it lying down. When a girlfriend of mine hit me a second time, I told her right then and there it was over. There is no excuse for hitting unless she is being attacked.
5: The Criticize Men in Public
This is one of the things girls do best. If you are in a public argument with a girl, you date, she will air out all of your most intimate secrets not related to the argument without any warning. She will attempt to make you feel as small and insecure as she possibly can. What she doesn’t know is how she is showing all within earshot that she can’t keep secrets and she can’t be trusted. Let her know that she is no longer trustworthy and treat her as such. I would just walk away as if she didn’t exist. Girls hate that you will not give them any attention.
4: They Don’t Disclose Their Relationship Status
There are two reasons that a girl will not disclose their relationship status; one, it’s none of your business and she just enjoys the conversation. If she accepts drinks from you and still does not disclose her status, that is a problem but you now know, after reading this article that you are not so desperate for someone to listen to you that you have to pay someone for drinks at a bar. The second reason is that they are playing the “available” card in the hopes that you are interested then you buy them a drink. Refer to item #9. The real problem resides when a girl that easily tells everyone she meets that she is attached, everyone except you. Is she lying to others to get rid of them or is she telling the truth and not revealing the truth to you? Does she have a placeholder that she labels a boyfriend to ward off unwanted men at her command and earmarks you as her next upgrade? This is a judgment call you have to make. A girl that will upgrade her placeholder to you will replace you too.
3: They Withhold Sex To Make A Point.
There is only one word for someone who uses sex for personal gain. Take it from there. There is nothing much you can do when you are financially obligated to her in the form of a marriage. If you get some for elsewhere, that is grounds for her to take everything you own. There are other ways to discourage a wife’s behavior. Since she married you, she found something valuable about you, take that away from her. Two can play at that game. Take credit cards, jewelry, cars, whatever you bought her in the past. If your girlfriend does this to you, then you can take a walk and not tell her anything when you return. Let her imagination get the best of her.
2: They Test Men
Women will test men on a constant and never-ending bases until you put a stop to it right away. Tests come into play in a variety of different ways.
A. She accuses you of something so that you can be on the defensive as you explain to her what she will not take time to figure out on her own.
B. She will accuse you of not loving her, loving someone other than her, lying, cheating, etc. If you get one or more of these on a daily basis, you simply say, “If you think that I don’t love you, then you must be doing something wrong, and now you must leave. Women hate when their man is defensive. To her it looks like you fear her.
C. She will flirt or talk about another man as if you should be jealous of this guy. Again, let her know that if she pointed out that you are not good enough, tell her to find a perfect man and leave you.
D. They start petty arguments to see how you deal with conflict. Again, kill cancer before it kills you.
Women can conjure up tests on the fly without rhyme or reason. Their feeble tests and outcomes are not scientific in nature and you are not a lab rat to be tested by an immature amateur scientist.
1: They Flirt To Inspire Jealousy
If there is one emotion that women obsess over all others is the one of jealousy. From my days in grade school, middle school, high school, college and into my 50’s, the talks that women cackle to their gaggle of friends are of jealousy. They speak of jealousy as if jealousy from a man equates to love when, in fact, they hate when they are jealous.
For decades I have listened to women as they have professed how they want to “make him jealous” but I never heard them saying how much they want to make a man feel loved, comfortable, happy or proud. Jealousy is the feeling women prefer to invoke their men overall.
Jealousy is nothing but insecurity, anger and frustration and a woman loves when she has the power to invoke such emotions from the man, she so calls the one she loves. She will manipulate this emotion out of a man as if that man is her personal play toy. She will flirt and talk about other men until she gets what she wants. Like all things in this article, cut it off before it grows and consumes you. When you see her working overtime to force you to have the emotion, she demands of you, dismisses her and tells her that it’s over.
Remember, never ever threaten or hit anyone that hasn’t hit you first, especially not a woman, but always let the girl know that you are prepared to go to jail over her foolishness.