A subject must prove his worth to royalty. Maybe I am wrong, but I am not a servant. I will not invite a woman into my world on her terms, at her pace, and then pay and provide for all her needs, wants, and desires. Feminism declared that women are equal to men. If that is the case, then it is your turn to ask us out, entertain us properly, and prove yourselves worthy. If not, you get turned down, just like any unworthy suitor.
I have a question for you women. Do you want to walk beside a king or a servant? The choice is yours. A servant obeys. A king is treated with respect. It is that simple.
Men can take rejection. Most men have faced rejection tens of thousands of times, on the job, in sports, in business, in life. We accept that reality. We know if we ask and hear “no,” it means nothing. We move on. “No” is just a word. No real man wastes time with political correctness, because we know that words cannot harm us. It is women who fear rejection, and because of that fear, they have rarely gone after what they truly want. Men land the jobs they want because they attend hundreds of interviews undaunted. Do you really think a simple “no” will break us? Think what you want. We are built for reality, not comfort.
So what if we do not communicate the way you think we should? Tough. Once again, men are not your servants.
If you want to dance, then dance. Entertain us.
Looking for compliments? Fine. You look nice today. But you had better put effort into that look. Show up in your best outfit. If not, we do not connect. Maybe you need to rethink the jeans and the business suits. That butch, boxy look is not flattering. If men wanted to date someone in jeans, well, you can figure out the rest.
Men are not supposed to impress you or drop gifts at your feet. You want that? Hire a servant. Men are taking charge, but not in the way you define it. We are not taking charge by bending to your needs, wants, and emotional demands.
Let me ask you one final question, how many years do you think you are entitled to full royal pampering? Teenagers are dating. People in their twenties are dating. What are you waiting for?
You are not royalty. And we are not your servants.
