There is a definite problem with women that refer to men as a “Provider”. They seem to have a profound unrealistic view of the meaning of the word. They seem to want a man that will be by her side 24 hours a day 7 days a week working hard and earning money for the sole purpose of pampering them and them alone. She wants you at her disposal at any time day or night no matter what you are doing at the time.
If she is not excited, you have to provide her excitement.
If she is unhappy, its the providers fault because he is not providing her happiness on a silver platter for her majesty.
If you tell her that happiness comes from within, she will look at you like you are trying to convince her that she is responsible and that you are trying to weasel out of your responsibility.
If you are not achieving her very lofty and highly unrealistic goals quick enough, then she will slowly start resenting you and start destroying things you like in order to punish you, because you should never like anything any more than you like her.
Her jealousy runs high. I’ve seen women destroy cars, boats, businesses and even the fathers kids.
One girl I talked to told me that she hated the man she was with so much that she will destroy the one thing that man loves the most. When I asked her what that was she looked me straight in the eye and said, “Me”. This girl was so intent on punishing her boyfriend that she was willing to punish him by destroying her own life. I was in such shock at that point that I couldn’t even ask her what that entailed.
I met one girl that was so unhappy that there was no excitement in her marriage that she told me it was ruining her life. I told her to find a hobby or a means to fulfill her life. She quickly barked, “That’s his job!”
All I could say is, “WoW!” This girl was beyond saving. She later found an initiator and provider that gave her excitement then her husband caught those two in bed and now she is divorced and that second man is long gone. Where is the excitement now?
Girls like these do not initiate anything. They somehow think that if it is “meant to be”, (remember that phrase, they tend to say that a lot) someone will make it happen.
When I hear stories of women destroying another man’s life, inevitably I will hear another woman blaming the man for not stopping her beforehand. They act like a collective never blaming a woman for anything.