Women, just like children, need constant and never-ending attention when, where, and how they want it. When a child does not get what they want, a tantrum follows, and the fully grown woman will throw her tantrum too. You can discipline a child with harsh words and punishment. The adult female, however, is immune to those tactics and well above the law when it comes to putting hands on her. She knows you will not hit her and she is proud of that. She will never learn right from wrong when she can manipulate and command a group of nearby servant males to come to her aid any time she wants, whether she is right or wrong. Police, judges, and bystanders will rush to her defense. She feels vindicated because their reaction is proof, in her mind, that she is right.
A child needs toys and does not care where the money comes from, as long as they get the toy they will discard in a few days. The woman wants more expensive toys and will never work to get them. Her provider must supply them.
The wedding day gives her all the attention she has always wanted, served to her on the silver platter she dreamed of. She becomes the center of attention. All eyes are on her. Once you marry her, she expects you alone to replace the many who once showered her with admiration.
But you cannot stop there. If you fail to give her all she desires, she has another attention grab ready.
Divorce gives her everything she missed out on during the wedding and far more. She gets to be seen as the victim of a very bad man. She knows he is bad because she fixates on every imperfection in him, while ignoring the flaws in herself. She gains police, judges, and lawyers to help her defeat the bad man. She gets to temporarily feel powerful and in control by rallying others to serve her in destroying him. She uses the children as bait to force him to come back and beg, when in truth, he only wants to see his kids. She has manipulated others for so long that she convinces herself he still wants her. She gets weekly payments for having been married to him and for supposedly supporting his kids. In reality, the money goes straight to her. His children are little more than an afterthought in her mind.
