Before embarking on any dates, you must come to the conclusion that you are the prize not her. There are more women than men on this earth because men have heart lives. They die at work, they die and play,they die at war.
With that being said, any dating app has the absolute bottom OF THE barrel of women in their pool. The women that have something to hide, like overweight, married or very old. These women are looking for a virtual relationship only Because showing up in real life will never work for them. The above is also true for gay men. Gay men use female pictures to have virtual affairs with single straight men.
Additionally, there is a segment of the women that only want to be liked and complemented for their own personal validation. They want to be told 1000 times a day that they are beautiful, gorgeous princesses. They will never meet in person.
When you get matched up on some dating app, try this approach.
1. Get a cheap phone or an app that issues a phone number that you can burn at a moment’s notice. Use that phone number instead of your personal phone number.Women will look up your phone number and you may need a quick way to get rid of her if she is a scammer.
2. If you are the first to contact her or if she contacts you first, text her the following, “I liked your profile and I’m a busy man, here’s my number and call me. I don’t want either of us to waste time. 212.555.6650. Time is money.” Then wait.
3. If she complains, drop her without replying. Block her immediately. If she sends you her number, call her in 20 minutes. When you call her tell her that you thought she would call you.
4. Remember, if she’s divorced, she does not respect her word or her vows. If she’s a single mom, she has zero respect for families. You are on your own from here.
5. Set up a date for coffee and cake in a place that you normally do not go to.
If you finally get her to meet up with you, remember to ask her to do something for you. Give her a chance to invest in you. This could be as innocuous as asking her to wear her hair, a certain way, or where a certain color or floral print. You could even ask her to bring gum or aspirin with her. If she won’t do tiny things for you, you have dodged a major bullet and you can thank me later.
If there are second and third dates, make sure she brings something to you each time. You are not asking for much, something less than $5 is good.