• In high school, you dismissed your male classmates, choosing instead to date gang members, drug addicts, and drug dealers.
• In college, you continued to look down on your male peers, pursuing relationships with married men and other unreliable individuals.
• You placed men you didn’t like in the friend zone and rejected good men, claiming they were “too nice.”
• You married and divorced men, not because of irreconcilable differences, but because you found flaws in them or grew bored.
• You expected men to pursue you while you played hard to get, only to pressure them into commitment before ultimately ending the relationship yourself.
• You went out with men you didn’t even like, simply because they offered you an enjoyable dinner, evening, or vacation.
• You ended every relationship—whether a boyfriend, engagement, or marriage—always finding a reason to walk away.
• You used the legal system—police, lawyers, and judges—to extract as much money as possible from the men you once claimed to love and cherish “until death do us part.”
• You alienated your children from the most important man in their lives—their father.
Now, as your children grow older, you dream of Prince Charming rescuing you and funding the rest of your life. Yet you are left with countless memories of men you never truly cared for.
As you demand that every man invest in you from the very first date, under the false pretense of seeking a future together, you compel them to make a financial commitment, only to walk away from their investment. Many men have invested in you, yet you chose to leave. Now, you expect a man you have never met to provide you with luxuries for the rest of your life while showing no genuine interest in building a meaningful connection with him.
When a man judges your situation—having multiple children from multiple fathers—you respond with phrases like, “Nobody’s perfect,” “Don’t judge me,” or “People make mistakes.” But did you not judge the men in your past for being less than perfect? Were you forgiving of their mistakes?
Do you truly want your daughters to follow in your footsteps, having multiple children from multiple men?
Do you really want your son’s children taken from him, so you can visit your grandchildren in other men’s homes?