If you like her and she does not like you, she will enjoy the fact that you like her. She will soak up your attention, your validation, your compliments, your gifts, and your time. She has no intention of reciprocating. She just likes being admired. You become her personal cheerleader while she looks for the man she actually wants.
If she likes you but you do not like her, she will obsess over you. The more indifferent you are, the more desperate she becomes. Your lack of interest becomes a challenge. She will try to “earn” your approval, convinced that once you like her, she wins. But the moment you give in and show interest, her obsession will die.
If you like her and she likes you back, enjoy the countdown. Because sooner or later, she will find something wrong with you. It will be petty. It will be fabricated. But it will be her exit strategy. Why? Because the thrill of being wanted fades the moment she feels secure. She will sabotage what she has to chase what excites her. Comfort is boring. Drama is addictive.
