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“Teach a man to make $1,000 in an hour and he will find a way to make that 18 hours a day
 
Teach a woman the same and she will think that she only needs to work 2 hours a week.”
 
-Andrew Tate
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“My unmatched perspicacity, coupled with my sheer indefatigability, combine to make me a feared opponent in any realm of human endeavor”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“I can never think of a time where I had a problem and I called a woman and told her my problem and the problem went away. I’d call a girl I’d go, ‘I’ve got this issue, I need money, or someone is out to kill me or, I got stabbed’ or whatever. And the girl said something that wasn’t, just garbage. They cannot help your problems. Women are not combat ready.”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“Feminism is an ideology that can not be defended by feminists. The only people that can defend feminism are the men that subscribe to that garbage.”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“Women don’t need men in a physical sense because life is soft. But it’s Bullshit. And it’s bullshit because you still need men by proxy, one, and two, the second life gets difficult you very quickly learn how much you need men. But women will go, ‘I’m an independent woman. I don’t need no man because I have an OnlyFanss and men pay my OnlyFans and if anyone comes up to me, I’ll call a male police officer. I don’t need men/’ Shut up you’re a fucken idiot. Your whole life is based on men. Of course you need men. You just named your whole life is based on fucken men. The house you are living in was built by men. The car you are driving was designed by a man. Your whole life depends on men. And the second anything bad were to happen to you, the second you were physically threatened, or times would get hard, or a war would start, or famine, or riots. The first thing you do is find a big strongman, and shit yourself and throw the feminism out the window. Feminism goes out the window the minute the snow needs shoveling, or there’s a broken down car, or there’s a tire that needs changing. Then all that crap vanishes. It’s garbage!”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“Men who live without self control are the kind of men who cry when their girlfriend cheats on them, ’cause she certainly does, because she doesn’t respect a little cry baby, and she’s only with you because she’s ugly as fuck and she has to settle for a little soy boy pussy like you.”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“If you name the biggest conquerors that you can possibly name from history, Genghis Khan, Alexander the Great, all of them, they all had100 wives, bunch of children, Big ‘G’, conquered the world. Normal! That is normal evolutionary biology. That’s how men are designed to be.”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

“There’s not been, in the history of humanity, across any culture, any book, any story, any fable, there has never been, across the history of humanity, any respect in the name of a promiscuous female. Ever! Ever! There has never been a single female that has been celebrated for her promiscuity, ever in history. It’s always been frowned upon. It’s disgusting. Not a single woman who was celebrated for having multiple husbands. Female promiscuity has always been disgusting and frowned upon.”
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

1. Men have the divine imperative to become as capable, competent, and powerful as possible in this life.
 
2. I reserve my human right to hold my own beliefs, practice them as I see fit, and give people the same right to believe and act as they wish.
 
3. I prefer loving, rewarding, consensual relationships with beautiful, positive, virtuous, (feminine) women.
 
4. Men and women are different, each has their own unique and important strengths and abilities (skillsets).
 
5. Men have the sacred duty to protect and provide for the important people in their lives.
 
6. Men have the sacred duty to protect the innocence and sanctity of their children and reserve the right and responsibility to raise their children as they see best to ensure their long-term happiness, health and success.
 
7. Men have the sacred duty to raise strong, capable, and honorable sons.
 
8. Men have the sacred duty to raise kind, feminine, and virtuous daughters.
 
9. I utterly disprove violence within familiar and romantic relationships.
 
10. I support good and honest governments, and will obey their laws.
 
11. I prefer to conduct business dealings only with trusted and vetted brothers.
 
12. A man has the sacred duty to hold true to his word and do exactly what he says he will do.
 
13. A man’s life is difficult, so he has the sacred duty to become strong to handle such difficulty.
 
14. Men are personally responsible for their actions and for the results they achieve in their lives.
 
15. I believe in emotional control and the vital need to become disciplined and professional in all things.
 
16. Men have the sacred duty to approach everything in life from a position of strength.
 
17. All men have the sacred duty to become men of upright and virtuous character and live above all possible reproach.
 
18. I believe it is incumbent upon me to ruthlessly identify my own weaknesses and limitations and work to overcome them and become more capable in all realms.
 
19. I seek to improve my personal freedom to think, act and live true to my masculine imperative in all ways.
 
20. Each man has a sacred duty to mold the physical body into the strongest, most resilient, and most capable version of itself.
 
21. Men have the sacred duty to rigorously mold themselves, both physically and mentally every day.
 
22. I have the sacred duty to only eat the highest quality foods possible.
 
23. I reserve the right to protect the sanctity of my bloodstream and make my own decisions about my own medical care and procedures.
 
24. I affirm the importance of endlessly improving my mental faculties through diligent work, study, and practice.
 
25. I believe in acquiring wealth and abundance in order to improve my life and do good to those I care about.
 
26. I believe in the merits of healthy competition and constantly encourage men to seek out the competition to improve themselves.
 
27. I believe masculine brotherhood is essential to men’s mental health, happiness and success, and I relentlessly encourage men to meet together, work together, and train together.
 
28. I maintain the trust of my brothers through reverent silence regarding our most sacred and shared experiences.
 
29. I believe in honoring my ancestors and living in a way that would make most of them proud of me today.
 
30. I reserve the right to administer difficult rights of passage to our young men to allow them to earn the rank of manhood.
 
31. I affirm the importance and need of travel and adventure as men.
 
32. I seek to help men overcome poor mental health by embracing hard work, physical improvements, and shared masculine brotherhood.
 
33. I reserve the right to make the best choices I can at the time to protect myself and respect my mental health.
 
34. I do good in the world and seek to help those less fortunate.
 
35. I believe all men have the responsibility to lead and guide those they care about for greater prosperity, health, and happiness.
 
36. I choose to only interact with those who are respectful and civil to me, in return for my own respectfulness and civility.
 
37. I reserve the freedom to speak and refer to others as I believe is the best and most truthful.
 
38. I reserve the right to choose my company and include only those whom I believe is best for my health, happiness, and success.
 
39. I believe I have an imperative to only spend my time in a way that I determine is beneficial, uplifting, and empowering to myself and others.
 
40. I choose to only allow myself to be influenced by those whom I believe have my best interests in mind.
 
41. Each day I dedicate myself a new to creating the greatest possible positive impact on the world and doing the work necessary to achieve greater masculine excellence across all realms of human endeavor.
 
-Andrew Tate
Top “G”

The Maury Show ran for 24 years, with over 3,600 episodes, and the phrase “You are NOT the father” still hasn’t taught you anything. For more than two decades, women brought the wrong men on national television, lied to their faces, and cried victim when exposed by a DNA test. Again and again, men were dragged into courtrooms and studios, forced to prove they weren’t the father of a child they never created. And when the results came back negative, there was no apology, no accountability, just screaming, crying, and walking off stage like they were the ones betrayed.
 
Thousands of paternity tests later, and society still refuses to admit the truth: women lie, and men pay the price. The show didn’t entertain, it exposed. It documented betrayal, manipulation, and false paternity on repeat for 24 straight years. And somehow, you still haven’t figured it out.

I’ve been deliberately single for 25 years. In that time, I’ve had more women than I can count come to me, hinting they would leave their husbands just to be with me. Single mothers, divorcees, even women already tied to someone else, I pushed every last one of them aside. At 62 years old, I was still being approached. One 50 something bank manager even handed me her business card with a smirk, like I was supposed to be impressed.
 
From age 14 to 16, I had affairs with three of my high school teachers. That should tell you all you need to know about how early women start targeting teen boys.
 
I’m not pretending to be some ideal specimen. I’m fat, bald, ugly, and nearly blind. But I’ve got something they can’t resist, a big personality and zero tolerance for their bullshit. That’s why I keep my distance. I don’t play the game. I stay away from broads altogether.
 
I was married once. Twenty five years ago, my wife packed her bags and left. On the way out, she drained 250,000 dollars from our joint account and maxed out 50,000 dollars in credit card debt furnishing her new boyfriend’s apartment. I consulted four different lawyers. All four told me the same thing, don’t contest it. If I did, I’d be opening the door to false accusations, court manipulation, and financial destruction. The system was never designed to protect men. It was built to bleed us dry.
 
American women don’t love men. They love what men provide. They’ll tell you they love you while lining up the next sucker and draining his account dry. Love, to them, is not emotional. It’s transactional. It’s about leverage and gain. When the money runs out, the affection follows right behind it.
 
Ask any woman how many successful relationships she’s had. If she says more than one, that tells you everything. Success, to her, means she walked away with something, money, validation, assets, attention. Not commitment, not loyalty, not sacrifice. When a woman tells me she’s looking for another successful relationship, I just smile and say, I wish you many more, because I already know what that means.
 
When a woman tells me she likes older men, I don’t take the bait. I just tell her, There are plenty of older men out there for you. The world is your oyster. That ends the conversation. Fast.
 
This is why I’m The XY Ghost. The Invisible Man. I left the game decades ago, and I never looked back. I don’t chase. I don’t play. I don’t entertain the illusion. I watch the collapse from a safe distance.
 
Google my name. TheXYGhost.

Non-virgins need to split the bill. You already gave another man what was supposed to be special, so do not show up expecting full treatment for leftovers.
 
Divorcees need to pay the whole bill. You had your chance, you blew it, and now you want another man to clean up what you could not hold together. No. You pay.
 
Single moms do not just pay for the entire date, they owe compensation. That man is not just dealing with you, he is stepping into a job someone else walked out on. So yes, you cover dinner, and while you are at it, hand over a Rolex for each kid he is expected to love like his own. You want him to act like a provider, start by paying like one.

I’m 60 years old, when I was 7 my babysitter gave me my first oral. When I was 14 and 15 I had affairs with 3 of my high school teachers. My first girlfriend left me for a 20 year old drug addict that I saw lying in the streets strung out 20 years later. I had 3 girlfriends that were pregnant but tests prove I was not the father. I had 2 of my ex’s that had abortions behind my back. Although I was never formally charged, I had 3 girls that accused me of gRAPE. They spread rumors around the circle of people with whom I surrounded myself. Two of those girls I never even touched, the third one I have never had sex.
 
Two weeks before my wife served me my divorce papers, she blurted out, “the first time we had sex, you raped me”. Did she mean to say that I raped her, and then she married me?
 
In my teens and into my twenties, I had a few girlfriends confide in me that their step dad was constantly molesting them. (And you want to marry a single mother). Female classmates in college and in high school told me similar stories. I never knew why those girls never reported this to the police. I later found out that young girls have gRAPE fantasies about their step-fathers. Sometimes these young girls blurt out their fantasies to invoke or manipulate a “rescue me” response from a boy with whom she’s talking. (And you STILL want to marry a single mother)
 
I’ve dated movie starlets and had 3 women in my life that were singers. (2 well known at the time and 1 not so well known.) I was married in my late 30’s and when she divorced me, stole $310,000 from my accounts. After my divorce 23 married women in my neighborhood started approaching me suggesting they will leave their man for me. 10 of those women had kids. One of those women divorced her husband, and when the divorce was final, she started coming around again. One time she sent her 12-year-old daughter to tell me, “you’re my mommy’s boyfriend.” I’m not about to break up a family. When I showed my disinterest, they went to their husbands and told them I was hitting on them. In my teens I had 4 girlfriends of single mothers and their mom (3 of them) made advances towards me. When I turned them down, they told their daughter to leave me. One of the girl’s I dated, her aunt hit on me and left it alone after that.
 
I’ve had several girlfriends in the past. When their best friend hit on me and I refused, they told my girlfriend that I hit on them. One of my girlfriends’ best friends convinced my girlfriend to break up with me. When she did, that girl came up to me and asked if I could “give her a try”.
 
I’ve dated a woman that had a net worth of $41 million back in the 1980’s, she left me for a 55 year old man that was worth much more. He ended up dumping her a few months later and she begged me to come back to her.
 
My 61 year old sister had 3 kids from 3 different men and married and divorced 2 of them. From the age of 16, all of her boyfriends and husbands were alcoholic, drug addicts and violent criminals. Mind you that growing up, her and I were never surrounded by any drugs or alcohol.
 
My life has been a series of temporary hookups based on financial worth. I’ve watched my childhood friends, my classmates, coworkers and neighbors in the same storm. No love, just temporary conquest until something better comes along. I have only wanted one girlfriend, I’m ashamed that I’ve had so many.
 
I’ve been single for 22 years and even last month a 50+ year old female bank manager came over to my side of the bar to give me her business card. I am not a drinker of spirits but I have a coffee every afternoon at the bar of a nice restaurant near me. She overheard that I was single while I was talking to the bartender. She said, “I overheard that you are single. We are both in the same boat”. The bartender was shocked when she saw this. She thought I was lying about my dating past. The only thing that was going through my mind when she handed me her card was, “we are not in the same boat, we are in the same storm”
 
I’m 60 years old, bald, ugly, fat and going blind. I’m not saying that I’m this “hot” commodity that every girl desires, I’m saying I know the modern feminist influenced woman so well, I can even predict with almost 60% accuracy, what they will say next and how they lie.
 
When I tell women my story, they almost always say one of the following.
 
“Not ALL women are like that!”
“You hate women.”
“Who hurt you?”
“You just pick the wrong women.”
“Where do you find these women?”

A man will die to save his family.
A man will die to save his friends.
A man will die to save a stranger.
A man will die for the betterment of society.
 
And I am not even talking about war.
 
How many men in Japan went on suicide missions to clean up the reactors in Fukushima? How many men walked into the radioactive wreckage of Chernobyl knowing they would die? How many firemen charge into burning buildings to save people they have never met?
 
Now ask, how many women risk their lives to do anything? Most just stand outside a burning building screaming, “Somebody save my baby,” while waiting for a man to go in.
 
A man I once knew had a burnt and disfigured face because, as a five year old, his mother ran out of a burning house and left him behind in the same room she had just escaped from. That is the kind of love he got from the woman who gave birth to him.
 
So when I hear women say they do not need a man, I do not get mad, I just cringe. I wish men would go on a one week strike every year. No work, no fixing, no buying, no entertainment, no effort. Just seven days of complete silence and stillness. Let the world see what happens when men stop doing everything they are quietly expected to do.

Women claim they can multitask, but they consistently fail to juggle a career and a relationship at the same time. The moment pressure hits, one of those things collapses, and it is usually the relationship. Men have carried families and careers for millennia, often with no praise, no sympathy, and no fallback. They worked, provided, protected, and endured without walking away. Women talk about balance, men lived it.

I dated a Director of Marketing for a large international cosmetics company, where she had worked for twelve years.
 
We spent weekends together, and from time to time, she experienced what she called a panic attack. Whenever this happened, I did my best to calm her down, asking what I could do to help and taking steps to ease her condition.
 
Over the course of eight months, she had six of these episodes. Determined to support her, I read books and consulted professionals to better understand what she might be going through.
 
One day, I asked her how often she experienced these attacks at work, thinking it might help identify triggers. She told me, without hesitation, that she had never once had an episode on the job.
 
In that moment, it became clear. These panic attacks were not random. They were likely staged, designed to manipulate me for attention or control.
 
I saw my exit. I looked her in the eye and said, “Maybe I’m the trigger that causes these episodes.”
 
She knew I was about to leave her, and right on cue, another attack started. Watching it unfold, I calmly told her, “This confirms I’m no good for you,” and I walked out of her apartment.
 
When I got home, there was a message waiting on my answering machine. Her friend said the police had been called, and she had been admitted to Bellevue Hospital for observation.
 
The same friend called again later, trying to convince me to come back and help her. I asked one simple question, “What are you doing to help her?”
 
That was the last time I ever heard from either of them.

1. Approach you
 
2. Introduce herself to you
 
3. Make the first move
 
4. Open up with a “line”
 
5. Ask for your number
 
6. Make the first call
 
7. Suggest a date
 
8. Set up a first date
 
9. Initiate the first date
 
10. Pick you up
 
11. Hold open a door for you
 
12. Buy you a gift
 
13. Drive to the date
 
14. Initiate conversations
 
15. Maintain conversation
 
16. Make you laugh
 
17. Make you happy
 
18. Pay for the date
 
19. Drive you home
 
20. Initiate the first kiss
 
21. Initiate any communication after the first date
 
22. Help you out
 
23. Risk her life for you
 
24. Protect you with her life
 
25. Commit to you
 
26. Buy you an engagement ring
 
27. Get on one knee and propose marriage
 
28. Pay for a wedding
 
29. Buy you a house
 
30. Buy you a car
 
31. Buy you a wedding ring
 
32. Initiate sex
 
33. Perform better than your last 20 partners
 
34. Work hard to support your expensive taste
 
35. Work two or three jobs to support you
 
But if you fail at any of the above things she will never do for you, she will initiate a new boyfriend (and at that point she will not consider it cheating), initiate a divorce, take your home, kids, pension, 401(k), stock portfolio, and force you to pay alimony, child support, and the mortgage for the house she now shares with your replacement as he tucks your kids in at night.
 
If you think she wronged you, remember this: you picked her. That means you should have known she was planning this. It is all your fault. You must have done something wrong, because she is never wrong.
 
In fact, she will initiate nothing with you, except the divorce.
 
And you wonder why men are not begging to do this all over again.
 
Do you think this was done to break up families, confuse children, emasculate men, and destroy their power?

Men cheat because, as the saying goes, there is one food that kills a woman’s sex drive by 99.99 percent, wedding cake. Once the vows are spoken, her sexual appetite often disappears, replaced by obligation, routine, or outright resentment.
 
Women cheat for a different reason. They find a man who provides for them in every way, financially, emotionally, physically, and they interpret support as an unconditional promise to stay no matter what they do. Once they secure a provider, they start to feel bored. Stability feels like failure. Comfort becomes dull. So they go looking for excitement, chaos, or drama. And if they cannot find it, they create it.

What happens here stays here.
 
Free speech is spoken here.
 
TheXYGhost equals The Missing Man.
 
MGTOW means Men Going Their Own Way.
 
MGHOW means Men Going His Own Way.
 
Men Going Their Own Way refers to men who choose their own lifestyle. Whether that means being a PUA, a Pick Up Artist, an MRA, a Men’s Rights Activist, part of the MRM, the Men’s Rights Movement, walking one of the various paths within MGTOW, or simply being a man maintaining his own family, we are here to help in any way we can.
 
Men excel at finding solutions to problems and offering real help. That is what we do. We invent, fix, improve, and build. That is why we helped women in the past, only to receive the proverbial kick in the groin in return. Please use this group to ask questions, seek answers, and share anything you need, your personal life, business, finances, car, or anything else. We are men, and unlike women, we solve problems and help others.
 
We are men becoming ghosts in the family. Men are being removed from their homes by Delilahs, supported by the Philistines of our time, police, family courts, social workers, social justice warriors, and others. These modern day Philistines are willing to do whatever Delilah demands.
 
We understand that women hate men, and for the most part, we are fine with that. We do not hate women in return. We will simply leave them alone and go our own way.
 
When audiences of women across the country, time and time again, have given standing ovations to Lorena Bobbitt for sexually mutilating an unarmed man in his sleep as an act of revenge, we know hatred lives in their hearts. Women like Gloria Steinem, a man hating lesbian, glorify abortion, leading to 58 million unborn children lost since 1972, after Roe v. Wade. Donna Hylton, who spent 27 years in prison for beating, torturing, raping, and killing a 62 year old man, is now held up as a spokesperson for women’s rights.
 
This is not the He-Man Woman Haters Club, but we do not want any women here.
 
As iron sharpens iron, one man sharpens another.
Proverbs 27:17
 
Established July 22, 2016.

As sexy as 45 year old Tina Turner was back in the mid 1980’s, no man in their 20’s and 30’s has ever drooled over her.
 
Sean Connery in his 60’s had girls in their 20’s, 30’s and beyond who found him sexy.
 
I once talked to a 50 year old woman who said that when she was 16 she that 45 year old Ed Asner, who played Lou Grant on the 1970’s TV show, The Mary Tyler Moore Show. Ed Asner was a short, frumpy, bald man. That woman said that she was turned on whenever Lou Grant yelled out for Mary
 
Can you imagine a 16 year old girl being attracted to a 45 year old, bald, short man. It happens.

It has often been said that a man marries a woman hoping she stays the same, while a woman marries a man hoping he will change. That phrase survives because it hides a truth most men learn too late.
 
“You will never change,” “you refuse to change,” “you need to evolve,” “you need to evolve as a man,” “you are too set in your ways,” “I just need you to be different,” “you are not growing,” “you are stuck,” “I need more from you,” these are some of the phrases you might hear, sometimes worded differently, sometimes softened, sometimes delivered in frustration. They all mean the same thing. They are not observations, they are signals. She is telling you that you no longer fit her current preference, and instead of naming what she wants, she labels your resistance as a flaw in her eyes. When you hear these phrases, understand the warning clearly. She is not asking for growth. She is asking you to change into a version that suits her, right now.
 
Change is an empty word when it has no direction. It is not guidance. It is not instruction. It is noise. When a woman says change she almost never defines it. There is no destination, no standard, no measurable outcome. She does not say become more disciplined, become more focused, become stronger, become calmer. She simply says change and expects the man to read her mind. Translation, you are not meeting her shifting expectations, and she is calling that your flaw.
 
What is rarely said out loud is that women are obsessed with men changing to match their personal preference in that specific moment. Not a fixed ideal. Not a stable standard. A feeling. A phase. A comparison. What she wants today is shaped by her mood, her environment, her friends, her media, and the last man she compared you to. So even if you comply, you are already behind. The moment you adjust, the preference shifts. It is not a man’s job to change his life to better suit her temporary moods.
 
Every time you comply, you lose ground. Each adjustment teaches her that you have no fixed center. The more you reshape yourself to fit her current preference, the less she respects you in her own mind. Compliance does not create approval, it creates weakness in her eyes. A man who is always adapting is not seen as flexible, he is seen as moldable. And moldable men are never respected.
 
Change up, change down, change left, change right, change forward, change backward. Change your habits, your tone, your priorities, your boundaries, your tolerance, your spine. Change what you enjoy. Change what makes you you. The word becomes powerful because it is vague, and because the goal post never stays still. Vagueness allows dissatisfaction without responsibility.
 
In short, she is asking you to change, but she will view you as weak if you do.
 
A man who keeps changing to please her does not look cooperative to her, he looks unsure. He looks like a man seeking permission instead of leading his own life. Even if she benefits from the changes, attraction does not grow in her. It dies. Women do not bond to men who orbit their moods. They lose respect for men who abandon their own frame in exchange for temporary peace. Judgment and consequence live in her perception, not in the man’s effort.
 
When a man asks, change how, the answer is never concrete. It is emotional. It is situational. It changes with her mood and her latest comparison. One day you are too rigid. The next day you are too distant. Then you are not ambitious enough. The target moves because the goal was never improvement. The goal was control.
 
If there is no clear definition of what change means, then no change is owed. A demand without specifics is not guidance, it is control. A man does not alter his identity to chase an undefined standard. If clarity is not given, the answer is no. Not later, not after discussion, no.
 
When she asks you to change your tone, change your attitude, or tells you to evolve, the correct response is not anger and not appeasement. It is calm pressure. You call it out directly. You ask one question and you do not soften it. “What exactly do you want me to change into?” Be silent and wait. She will become vague. She will deflect. She will say “you’re missing the point” or “you should already know.” That is your cue to stay steady and repeat the question. If she cannot define the change, the conversation ends there. You do not negotiate with fog and you do not revisit undefined demands later.
 
You press for definition without emotion. “What part of me do you want changed?” “Who do you want me to be more like?” “What man are you comparing me to?” She will become defensive because ambiguity protects her position. You do not rescue her from that discomfort. You stay on point and keep asking for clarity until it becomes obvious that there is no answer. Be stern. Not angry. Not upset. Calm and firm, like you are dealing with a ten year old child who is avoiding the truth. This is not a tactic you use once. It is the posture you keep.
 
A man does not exist to be endlessly adjusted. He is not a draft version waiting for approval. Growth is chosen, not demanded. Change that strengthens a man comes from his values, his goals, and his judgment, not from pressure applied under the threat of lost approval. Any woman who asks for change without direction is not asking for evolution, she is asking for surrender. And surrender is the moment respect dies.

After 25 years of marriage, she divorced him and had saved enough money to buy a house all in cash. He had to pay alimony because she made less than him.
 
There is “Our Money” and there is “My Money”. She lived off her provider.
 
Don’t be a provider!
 
Providers are servants.
 
Be a king and get treated well.

Women worship gangsters, thugs, criminals, substance abusers, ex convicts, gamblers, sweet talkers, liars, cheaters, woman beaters, jerks, married men, con artists, lazy idiots, and abusers, then dress it up as empowerment.
 
Feminism sold them the lie that they are superior to men, and they cling to it like scripture. They pick men they can dominate so they can play queen of a crumbling castle, or they pick disasters and then fantasize about being rescued from the very mess they walked into. They are not victims, they are volunteers in their own destruction.
 
They call these men fixer uppers, as if he is a house in need of paint and repairs. The truth is he is a wreck by design, because they need a project to control, to mold into a slave who serves their ego. The manipulation never ends, the drama never stops, and the end result is always the same, a man gutted of his strength while she brags about saving him.
 
These women thrive on chaos because chaos makes them feel relevant. Stability is boring to them, peace is foreign to them, and genuine partnership is a threat to their control. They will complain about the very qualities that drew them to these men in the first place, because the dysfunction is not an accident, it is the drug. Without it they feel invisible.
 
The cycle is endless. She finds a man beneath her, shapes him into a weaker version of himself, and when there is nothing left to take she leaves. She will tell the next man about her terrible ex, omitting that she chose him, nurtured his worst traits, and stayed until the damage was complete. Then she repeats the process and calls it love.

Men are not intimidated by women like you. That is just a euphemism women use to manipulate others and themselves into feeling superior to men. Men do not care about your success. You judge men based on the power you think you have over them. You believe you are superior to the men you out earn. But men do not leave because of your income, they walk away because of how you treat them. Then you pat yourself on the back and say men are intimidated by you.

How to Detect Emotional Thinking
 
1. They constantly change the subject or introduce unrelated topics, especially when they disagree with you. This is a deflection tactic used to avoid staying on point.
 
2. Once triggered, they begin speaking rapidly. The faster they talk, the less they process.
 
3. They interrupt repeatedly during conversations, especially when a specific word or phrase hits a nerve.
 
4. They speak in an accusatory tone. In their mind, they hear a neutral or even benign statement, twist it into the most negative interpretation possible, then accuse you based on their own emotional translation.
 
5. They instinctively protect their provider or collective. Children and women both defend whoever provides for them. When a woman defends the government over her husband, it usually means she plans to replace her husband with the government.
 
a • • For example, when someone criticizes President Obama, emotional thinkers respond with, “You hate him because he’s black.”
 
b • • When a man shares what his ex-wife did to him, they say, “You hate all women.” These are clear examples of point 4 and point 5 in action.
 
6. They frequently begin sentences with “I feel.” Such as, “I feel that you are not telling the truth,” or “I feel that he is a jerk.” Feelings are not facts, but emotional thinkers treat them as such.
 
7. They manipulate facts or statistics to justify their behavior. They cherry-pick numbers to fit a narrative and ignore anything that contradicts their emotions.
 
These are the traits of children and women. A man must grow out of emotional thinking and become logical. Boys raised by single mothers often fail to make that transformation. Instead of developing reason, they inherit emotion. They do not become men, they remain boys in adult bodies.