Long before MGTOW was even a term, I was already pointing out women’s behavior. I would talk to men, and some would agree, some wouldn’t. Some got defensive. Most mental health workers, psychiatrists, social workers, would tell me I needed help, as if there was no difference in how men and women behave. Women would either lash out in anger or get defensive and try to discredit everything I said.
They would almost always default to the same two lines, “Not all women are like that” and “You’re the one who picked those women.” It was a scripted defense, designed to protect the collective female image by flipping the blame back on me. It felt like talking to a mafia member denying the mafia even exists.
After hearing this same deflection over and over, I started preparing. I would carry a piece of paper with those two phrases written on it, “Not all women are like that” and “You’re the one who picked them.” Sometimes I would pause mid conversation just to write it down, other days I carried index cards ready to go. When they repeated those exact words, I would show them the paper and ask, “If not all women are like this, why do you all repeat the exact same script every single time?”
NAWALT, Not All Women Are Like That, is the knee jerk reflex most women use the moment you expose their behavior. Ironically, every time they say it, they prove AWALT, All Women Are Like That.
