Most modern women want a man on her, arbitrarily defined level or higher. This level is so loosely defined from woman to woman but the main components of, the illusive and very subjective level are the man’s income, status, height and appearance.
For the sake of this article, let’s just say she is at a level 5, she will be seeking a man of 6 or higher, factoring the multitude of components that are the bases of how she defines her level.
Finding a woman that is seeking a man that is on a higher level is a red flag in of itself, and here’s why;
1) What happens if she raises her level to a 7 and she perceives his level as unchanged? (He’s not keeping up with her.)
2) What happens to that man if she reevaluates his level as lower than herself, as time goes by?
3) What should she do if his level changes to a 10 or 12 as she plummets down to a 3 or 4?
4) Do you think she will stay or go if she reassesses her value to be higher than his?
5) Do you think that her self assessment of her level is overstated?
6) Do you think that her perception of your level is accurate?
Regardless of her perception or misperception of her level over you, you will still need to pay all the bills, open her doors and kiss her ass as she saves her money for herself. In short, you will be seen as her personal servant who needs to kill and die to protect her while she will detest the idea that you ask her for a glass of water.
Women like her will say things like, “He needs to keep up with me.” and “I might give him a chance.” Could you imagine a woman telling you that she is offering you a chance to be her servant?
The truth of the matter is this; she is not looking for a man to love, honor and respect, she is looking for a man that will raise her status and income as she looks down on you as her personal provider and protector. Why should a man provide for and protect an entity that uses him to raise their status. Men should provide and protect those who respect him.