The longer a woman stays away from a man’s influence, the more she begins to rely on her feelings to interpret the world. A woman left to her own emotional compass will always follow what feels good in the moment, not what is true, not what is logical, but what soothes her right now. Feelings are deceptive by nature. They create illusions. One day she feels empowered by her choices, the next day those same choices make her feel abandoned and betrayed. The situation didn’t change. Her feelings did. That is why the old saying exists, “It’s a woman’s prerogative to change her mind.” It is not a cute personality trait. It is a reflection of emotional inconsistency. She feels one thing today, tomorrow she feels something else, and her version of the truth shifts because it is tied to her emotions, not to objective reality.
Emotions fluctuate. Logic does not. The world runs on logic. Bridges stand because of logic. Businesses succeed because of logic. Laws function because of logic. Feelings have zero influence on gravity. Zero influence on mathematics. A woman needs a man to show her how to think logically, not because she is incapable of logic, but because her nature pushes her to prioritize emotional reasoning first. Right is always right. Wrong is always wrong. One plus one will always equal two. No amount of emotional spin, no matter how clever or convincing, will change that. But feelings will convince her otherwise. Feelings can make a woman justify anything in her head. She will believe her actions are righteous even when they are self-destructive. She will claim to be empowered while secretly feeling broken. Today she is convinced she is a strong independent queen. Tomorrow she is crying about being lonely and unloved. Nothing in the real world changed. Only her feelings did.
My grandmother used to say, “If a woman isn’t married by 25, there’s something wrong with her.” That was not an insult. That was a reality check from a generation that understood time and consequence. Back then, women knew their value in the marriage market wasn’t a permanent status. It was time sensitive. Youth and fertility had a clock. Today, women are told to ignore that truth because it feels bad. Modern culture feeds them feel good lies like, “You deserve a high value man no matter your age,” or, “Your standards are valid,” and, “Men should accept you for who you are.” So now you have women in their late 30s and 40s still acting like they are in their prime, still believing they can dictate the terms of relationships, still chasing a fantasy that their emotions constructed. They build their worldview on feelings, on what they want to believe, not on how the world actually operates. The dating market does not care about their emotions. Supply and demand will always override self perception.
Logic teaches you to see things as they are, not as you wish them to be. That is why a man’s presence is critical. He acts as the filter between her feelings and reality. He does not let her emotions rewrite facts every time her mood shifts. Without that masculine influence, she becomes trapped, caught in an emotional echo chamber where feelings validate feelings, and each emotional cycle pulls her further away from reality. She will keep chasing comfort. She will avoid discomfort. But in doing so, she detaches herself from how the world truly works. And the longer she stays in that loop, the harsher reality will hit her when it finally breaks through. Reality is patient. It will wait. But it will not bend. That is why without a man’s logic, a woman’s life becomes a slow motion collision with the truth.
