Regardless of her age, marital status, or social standing, a woman will refuse to love a man unless he surpasses her in status and income. She will also expect him to take on even her most basic responsibilities. It is not uncommon to hear women say, “He’s not making me happy,” placing the burden of their happiness entirely on the man. She often views him as a provider and believes it is his duty to ensure her happiness. She believes that a man’s only desire is to pay bills for another full-grown human being.
To her, it does not matter if she has one or multiple children from previous relationships; she assumes that a provider’s primary desire is to provide, not only for her but also another man’s offspring.
When she is with such a man, she may pressure him to propose, essentially seeking his lifelong commitment to meeting her needs. Once he legally commits through marriage, she may withdraw affection and shift her focus to finding all of his flaws, real or made up, as divorce can often become a profitable option for her.
Any man that does what she tells him, is not a “Real Man” to her. Ironically, any man that refuses to be her personal provider is labeled the same.