She will complain to all her friends and family that you are not giving her what she never asked of you. She will get angry because you can’t read her mind. She believes that if you truly loved her, you would magically know what she wants.
She feels that telling you directly would ruin the gesture, as it wouldn’t come from you naturally. Instead, she drops hints. But are hints really an effective form of communication?
She feels betrayed when you don’t do what she wants, but the reality is that she betrayed herself by setting impossible expectations for you. Her self-imposed obstacle of ineffective communication creates the very wall that stands between you and her.