Of all the girls I met and keep on meeting, I keep on hearing the same stories of their last boyfriend / husband.
1. He was abusive
a. This is a scam, did she really mean that she was loving, caring, giving and sharing and all he did was punch her in the face? I can walk on any street in America today and take a poll of 10,000 men (including you and I) and they would all say they would never hit a female. These females want me to believe that they found that 1 man in 10,000 that would hit a female. I won’t believe it.
2. He didn’t give me enough attention
Danger Will Robinson, my sensors indicate extreme human manipulation – Every time I hear this excuse, I think to myself the following;
a. How much attention did he promise you?
b. Did he give you a lot of attention, but that was not enough?
c. Did he give you all the attention any human can give, but that was not enough?
d. How much attention did he promise you when you first met?
e. How much attention is enough?
f. How much attention have you received since you two split?
g. Was breaking up your family your solution to your attention needs?
3. He didn’t love me
a. When I hear this, I can’t help but asking, “You must have loved him a whole lot for you to leave him.” or “How do you measure someone’s love for you?” or “Do you measure your pet’s love for you?”
4. He cheated on me
a. An oldie but goodie. I’ve seen this a million times. Females don’t mind cheaters if the man is cheating on his wife for her. They never mind being the target of a cheating man. But that’s the man they partnered with and now they are surprised that he cheated yet again.
5. He was a gambler, alcoholic or a substance abuser
a. Gamblers and substance abusers rarely just pop up out of nowhere. There are indications and warning signs all around that the female chooses to ignore.