Month: December 2025

What I love about being a man:
 
1. Your best friend can call you every name under the sun, and you can call him the worst piece of filth on the planet, and you both laugh about it.
 
2. Even your worst enemy will not hit you when you are asleep, eating, or with your family.
 
3. Even your worst mistake can eventually be forgiven.
 
4. Every now and then, another man in your crew will step up and take one for the team.
 
And for those who understand number one, here is your example:
 
Go fuck yourself, you cocksucker, motherfucking pieces of garbage.

A woman’s primary concern is her personal security. Everything else is secondary. From birth she is wired for it. This is not insecurity in the way men experience it, it is deeper, more primal, and it never stops. She is always looking for an external source to make her feel safe. A man, on the other hand, knows at his core that he must conquer his own insecurities or they will conquer him.
 
Some women measure security in money. They seek out men with resources because it is the easiest, laziest way to feel safe. Others measure security by dominance over the man himself. They choose weaker men because it makes them feel strong by comparison. They want to look down and know they are in control.
 
It is the same tactic as the attractive woman who keeps a fat and unattractive friend. Standing next to her, she appears even more beautiful. The ugly friend benefits because she is not competing for the same men, and she gets access to the attention and leftovers she would never have on her own. Both of these women, despite their alliance, will quietly sabotage each other’s relationships to keep their own security intact.
 
This is the hidden economy of female relationships. It is not built on loyalty, it is built on strategy. It is not about friendship, it is about positioning. And in the end, security is not something they create for themselves, it is something they take from others.

When a woman asks, “What kind of woman do you like?” she has already marked you as a potential personal provider. She is not asking out of curiosity, she is gathering intelligence. She needs to know what shape to mold herself into so she can pass your inspection long enough to secure her position.
 
My answer is always the same. I say I love a successful, independent, intelligent woman who has never been married, is very feminine, and does not come prepackaged with another man’s child.
 
Why that answer? Because I can redefine any part of it at any time, in any way I see fit. If she tries to perform the role, I can move the goalpost. If she tries to fake the qualities, I can call it out. By keeping the definition in my hands, I keep the power where it belongs.
 
Never hand over your blueprint. The moment she knows exactly what you want, she will shape-shift into it just long enough to get what she wants. Then the mask comes off.

Women:
 
• Would you still love your mother and father if they made less money than you do?
 
• Would you still love your sons and daughters if they made less money than you do?
 
• Would you still love your aunts and uncles if they made less money than you do?
 
• Would you still love your cousins if they made less money than you do?
 
• Would you still love your brothers and sisters if they made less money than you do?
 
Then why will you not love the man you promised to love and cherish until death? Why do you punish your own children by removing the most important man from their lives simply because he lost a job? Why do you call the police, hire lawyers, and run to judges to break him down when he fails to fulfill every fantasy and cannot serve your every want, need, desire, and emotion on a silver platter exactly when, where, and how you demand it?
 
Why do you choose to hate the very hand that fed you? Why do you take the love you vowed to give and lock it away the moment he is no longer a perfect provider in your eyes?
 
A vow is not a contract you cancel when your lifestyle dips. It is not a promise with a clause that expires when you are no longer entertained. The man you discard is the same man you chose. The man you betray is the one you once called your future. When you strip him from your children, you do not just punish him, you punish them. And for what? For failing to keep you in the comfort you decided you deserved.

1. How many children have you lost because of a woman?
 
2. How many were taken from you with the court’s blessing?
 
3. How many times were you told, “This is your baby,” and it was not?
 
4. How many of your children were killed at the hands of a woman, whether by abortion or otherwise?
 
5. How many times have you seen these same things happen to other men?
 
6. Were you taken from your father by your mother and kept away from him?
 
7. Did you know all your mother’s boyfriends but never knew your father?
 
8. Do you want to raise another man’s children while another man tucks your kids into bed at night?
 
9. How much money have you bled out in lawyers, legal costs, court fees, and lost work just to see your children four days a month while another man takes your place at night?
 
10. Do these questions cut too deep?
 
11. Do you have the will to make a real change now?
 
Six Steps to Start
 
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V. Invite men you know to change history
 
VI. Post this in every group where it matters
 
I am done playing softball.

I have seen too many women deliberately go out of their way to start trouble with another man just to see if their own man will fight for them. They treat it like some twisted loyalty test, a real-life reenactment of the boy who cried wolf.
 
Later, you hear her admit she did it to “see how much he loves me,” as if deliberately putting him in harm’s way is some romantic gesture. That is not love. That is proof she does not care about him. She was willing to risk his safety, his freedom, and his future for her own ego boost.
 
When will a woman put the same effort into loving her man as she does into testing him? When will she fight to protect him instead of provoking danger just to watch him bleed for her? The answer is simple, most never will. Because for too many, the test is the point, the drama is the goal, and the love was never real.